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Here's another brain teaser, why is it that the ex thinks she is on some level ok to talk and like socialize with daughter. Every time we are all together, she is constantly talking to her, buying her snacks, or bringing them for her. It aggravates me to no end. I know that my child doesn't know the 'situation' but why is she doing that. Always like running to her a card and taking my baby with her. I don't like that at all, I know I am being petty, but ugh!!!! It drives me crazy
Topic for today:
What to the kids think, I want to hear from actual step kids, do you ever realize the real truth. Or will it always be them against us. I need to know. What is the advice of the step kids that have been through it. Just love them like their your own, or give up.
Another the topic I would like to cover, what is the deal with my husband being so quiet about all of this. I know that it bothers him, but he never speaks his mind. Why is it that the real dad / mom that doesn't have custody takes such a back seat to the parenting. My husband's defense, if I yell and scream at her she will just take it out on the kids. But at what point do we just let all this stuff happen. What I always try to tell him, would you rather it be too late. I mean for goodness sake's she already let's them have group sleep over without separating the boys and girls.
Let's Bring you up to Speed
Okay so the jest of it, I very much dislike my husband's ex wife. Really it has nothing to do with the fact that she is the ex, more to do with the kids and the stupid things she does. So I am starting a journal and letting you decide am I over reacting or is she seriously demented.
Well,
Even after I am still miffed, and annoyed about the MD stuff. And wrote the letter and put it in the drawer. I am thinking that I am going to write a short note to my SS and let him know that 1. Here's the picture of your GF and you when you visited a month ago, 2. your Dad was injured on MD weekend but you never called,
and 3. by the way, your dad is still checking up on you and found out that your name isn't on the list of attendees for the TDY you told him you were going on to Denver next month. In fact, he checked twice, just to be sure he wasn't mistaken.
My daughter has her first prom this Saturday. She is a junior in high school and is very excited about going to her prom. My boyfriend's daughter is also going to the prom (her boyfriend is a junior). My boyfriend received a phone call from his daughter telling him that everyone was going to be at her mom's house at 6:00 p.m. and if he came fine and if he didn't fine. He is upset at the way she presented her "invitation".
I have to start separating my clothes from the main laundry stack we have. My husband puts all the clothes in the dryer and does not even hang up the delicate clothes... AGHHHH!!!!! Most of my clothes have shrunk cause he is suppose to hang them and not put them in the dryer! I feel like screaming...he is just another child that I have to mold, he is giving me a headache. I have enough duties as it is, working full time, a mom 24/7, he doesn't watch my daughter or do anything unless I tell him to. I just have too much to do and I don't have time to baby my husband.
Just wondering for those of you that were divorced....did you ever feel like being married again after that? How long did it take you to get married again? I'm just wondering because I can't figure out why biomom has yet remarried.
Just wondering how everyone's else's situation on this topic. Everytime my stepson is sick, he ends up at biomom's house no matter if it's our weekend. Why is that? Just like he was sick this past weekend, biomom called on Sunday and I was not home but husband was and stepson. I came home and husband told me that biomom picked him up because he was sick. I was like what, why? I feel like she can't trust us w/caring for him. My husband don't care much if she picks him up. I don't get it?
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