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First let me say thank you to all of you who have supported me in this and to let you know how much it meant to me.
I was up until about 3am last night, feeling sick and worried and balling my eyes out. I don't like to wait. Waiting is one of the worst things that someone can make me do and I have a very active imagination, so a million senarios were running through my mind. Turns out all to no avail.
Im starting to have doubts about getting married to my fiance. His constant doubting and pessemistic thoughts about me being stepmother to his son really makes me wonder if HE'S ready for marriage. I always try to reassure my fiance that i love his son but he thinks that for me to love his son i have to play with him 24/7, and show him affection all the freaking time..Ive never been a person who gushes over kids or contstantly give
First of all, I am so relieved to have stumbled across this site. I have been needing to vent and needing some assurance that there are other women going through the exact same situation(s). I am very new to this whole step-parenting thing. My parents have been married for 23 years, never divorced, and all of my relatives have stayed married to their spouses. I cannot wrap my head around the relationships in step families so needless to say I am having a very rough time with this. I will begin with how I met him husband and the events leading up to our marriage.
Yee haw! Cause to celebrate ladies!!! We won on the Montessori issue … Andrea isn’t going to enroll Jacob. Whoopee!!! I think that was her intention all along, but … (this is kind of long, sorry!)
I'm writing this is hopes of getting some support as well as having the opportunity to relese a little. My fiance has 4 sons. They are with us half time. These boys range from 3rd grade to a jr in high school. i am a very structured person and i have raised my children in a house filled with white furniture and lats of breakables around my home. i find every day that my home continues to become more and more of a mess.
Now I will fill in some gaps, in list form, for all of you who have been kind enough to read this stuff so far.
It's been stated that the girl needs held. Indeed. We've done the therapist thing, and shrinks, and tests, some meds, etc.
Dau unmarried with infant. Ex boyfriend thinks it is not his. Now, she is thinking about telling him the baby is his. The ex was controlling. I feel that would be asking for more trouble. I say leave it alone.
Anybody???? 
My ex husband is an awesome and loving man.
I mean REALLY. He is devoted as a father, and a friend, and a son, and a brother, etc.
We married WAY TOO YOUNG. That was our crime. We communicated badly, fought for no reason, and couldn't understand each other. WHAT A MONSTER. (joking)
Anyway, we separated and divorced, and realized we are way better friends than lovers. We are even better parents now without all the animosity.
It's been a few days since my last post.
I have avoided making a new post, actually, because I've felt a few of you needed to vent a bit more than I. My friend "goingcrazy" in particular. If you've not yet read her posts, please take a moment to do that. Afterwards, I'd like you to take another moment...and pray for both her family and for her. I am humbled by her strength, and her reaction to certain recent events. This is a tried and true woman, mother, and friend.
With that said, here goes.
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