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OK, My DH has a SD who is 29 from his last marriage. Two weeks ago she acussed "me" or us of not treating her equal. TRUST ME when I say we do. She said many other hurtful things that got me "worked up". My DH thinks I should stand up to her and speak my mind (passing the buck) and I think he should stand up for me and tell her what WE think of the situation. I think he is just afraid of hurting her feeling. Regardless that my feelings have been hurt. What do YOU think?
I've been reading a lot of posts & it seems that there are a lot of angry ex's that many here are dealing with. I have to admit, I have been the angry ex.
I have moved out!!! Yaaaaayyyyyy!!! Well guys I am finally on my own & in my new place. I think since I am out of my folks' house I will probably get along better with my step dad. We won't be in each other's way, & when he's moody I can just leave. Whew!
Where I work, people bring their children's fundraisers to sell for them to the rest of us. I saw this neat little dry-erase flip board with math problems, geography problems, etc on it and thought that would be cool to get SS, so I did. It was only $4.50, and since SS has said he's so bored in school and never learns anything I thought it would be nice to get. SS actually really liked it and used it quite a bit this weekend. Well, when BF dropped SS off last night and BM saw the flip board in the car, she went off...here's the email BF came home to last night:
For those of you who know my story, I bet you never thought you'd see this title on my blog, as SD and I have always had a very close and loving relationship. But Friday night I lost it and misdirected my anger and frustration onto her. It wasn't pretty. I hope I've been able to undo any damage. Let me back up a little and explain what happened.
I'll be a BM !!!!! I'm being induced Thursday night and baby Isaac should get here sometime Friday morning! Which, would be my mom's 51st birthday, so it kinda worked out perfectly! Unless my blood preasure keeps rising then I'll have to go to the hospital even earlier, but I'm hoping it stays down.
i have finally decided to move on once and for all. fiance came home tonight from a day at his exe's house with the kids. the tension was so thick you could cut it with a knife. i knew at that point that we had reached a point of no return. it was a hard decision and i probably should have made the decision a long time ago but sometimes you have to fall in the same hole over and over again to understand you need to walk around it. my only regret is that i gave up too much, my whole life for a man i hardly knew. never again.
well as most of you know last friday was the court hearing for shared care and we didn't get the news we were hoping for an now seem to be faced with an up hill battle with bm lying her fat arse off the intire time...
so an update from my last blogs - fiance and i had our final talk about if we really want to make this work. we went to a nice dinner friday and he pulls out a list of needs. it went something like this:
I am feeling relieved, knowing that finally we have given all the information to the courts and it will be in the hands of the judge. I know there are no guarantees, but right now I feel we are really doing all that we can. I sat with our attorney for two hours on Tuesday and gave much input to get this petition to read just so.
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