Ex's
I've been reading a lot of posts & it seems that there are a lot of angry ex's that many here are dealing with. I have to admit, I have been the angry ex.
My ex-creep (I still hate him & I'm so grateful we didn't have kids together) treated me like crap, chased me when I left to get me back, & retaliated when he couldn't get me back again. When we were together he lied to my friends & ended up isolating me from them so when I needed a friend I didn't have one. After the break up he lied to everybody, helped me lose my job, & married my worst enemy on the day he thought was my birthday. (He's so stupid he got the day wrong.)
Yeah, I'm still angry, but I don't want him back. I loathe him. And now he's doing things that just make him scum, but I won't get into it here. In fact I don't want to retaliate or have anything to do with him. But right after all that stuff happened (& before he married her) I went to his family to warn them what a witch she was. I've gotten word from his family that they said I was right. Duh.
When I read some of these posts about ex's, I recognize myself in there sometimes. I understand the feelings of betrayal & anger... boy, do I! Maybe this is a good flag to notice if you're with a guy who treats you like dirt & has an angry ex. There might be a reason she's so angry.
On the other hand, I had a best friend who was a guy. He dated a mutual friend & that girl went psycho!! She became jealous & possessive, she lied & caused fights constantly. When he finally broke up with her we were all afraid she's go fatal attraction on him (but she didn't, thank goodness.) So I'm not saying all ex's are mistreated. Some are just plain nuts!
Just observing.
Comments
Nuts is the word...
...of the day and so fitting too!
I was one too
I was an angry ex too, especially when I found out that my ex had taken his new GF to a family affair and I wasn't even invited over for dinner when we were dating because it would be "too uncomfortable." I had literally begged him to stop treating me like some dirty little secret he had to keep hidden from his mommy. He treated the new GF the way I begged him to treat me. You betcha I was mad.
I learned recently that they parted ways last fall. I wonder if he didn't learn any lessons after all.
I can relate....
I've lived on both sides of the fence and have a pretty good understanding for both perspectives....
Neither side is right and neither side is wrong.... Both sides are stubborn and unwilling to bend.
We are all so different and so alike at the same time... we have diffent parents, different backgrounds, religions, cultures, etc.
But ALL of us have had our hearts broken, have felt rejected, have fallen in love, have fallen out of love, have done things we wish we could take back.... etc. ALL of us have our place... our purpose...
Knowing that.... why do we continue to judge and degrade one another??
NOT INCLUDING NYMPH.... THAT B***H IS NUTS!
But seriously, why worry about everyone else? Why worry about the ex, or the new girlfriend or spouse? We can't change them... we can't make them see our side.... so why not just focus on ourselves, our families, and our futures?
If anyone figures it out, let me know!
"Don't be distracted by criticism. Remember, the only taste of success some people ever have is when they take a bite out of you."