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Too F!^*ing tired to deal with Skids crap, and now they are trying to F-up our weekend!

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Submitted by vgill on Fri, 12/30/2011 - 1:34pm

MY ex asked last weekend if he could keep the kids this weekend, he wants to take them to a New Years eve movie, Great, I mentioned this to my sister in law during Christmas dinner, and she volenteered to keep the baby, so Dh and I could go to my sisters NEw Years party. Note this weekend we were supposed to be kid free! This is not the skids weekend here, so Just now I find out that skids have been planing to come over this weekend, because they knew we had plans, the heard us making all the arrangements last weekend!

skids moved to their BM's house, what a difference!

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Submitted by vgill on Wed, 11/23/2011 - 12:57pm

It has been awhile since I have been here, but tha skids moved to their BM's house a year ago, and what a difference it has made in our lives! It isn't all for the better though, their BM is an idiot and has NO RULES! so you may be able to understand thier willingness to live with her when even the skids think she is a B!tch. but oiur relationship with the skids has improved, we can have real conversations, without fighting, they no longer have this big contempt for me or their father, and we seem to get along better and the time we do spend with them has alot more quality to it!

I thought that this site was a place for undersanding not bashing!

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Submitted by vgill on Sun, 09/19/2010 - 8:45am

I have come here when I really need to get a few things off my chest with out taking it out on my family and to look for support and understanding, and for the most part I have recieved support, understanding, and great advice. But I have also got alot of critcism for my views towards my Skids.

DH is starting to pull away from his kids, he is tired of dealing withthier bull sh!t.

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Submitted by vgill on Thu, 09/16/2010 - 6:11am

Has anyone else had a Dh just give up on rotten kids, and move on?? I asked Dh to call his boys last night to remind them about the plans for the weekend and to make sure that they had sweaters and stuff for the family outing, he said why they won't even want to come because the outings are not all about them.

Even Dh's family knows how rotten and misbehaved his kids are!!LOl!

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Submitted by vgill on Wed, 09/15/2010 - 6:29am

LOL! this Is funny because this validates how rotten his kids are. (not DH's fault he is actually a great father to my kids and ours!!) I posted a "baby Shower event for my brother and his wife and their new baby girl on facebook, and my brother and my oldest SS have the same name and his wife and SS's girlfriend have similar names... this is where it gets funny!!

Not looking forward to this weekend!!!!!!

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Submitted by vgill on Wed, 09/15/2010 - 5:56am

Am I being selfish or are these feelings normal? It is only Wednesday ansd already I feel stressed at the thought that the skids are supposed to come over this weekend. Although I have a little hope, they were supposed to come over last weekend and they decided not to, Dh was a little disapointed but he got over it really quickly, and we enjoyed a great weekend with out chaos.

IT's like a Christmas, birthdays and winning the lottery all at once!!!!

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Submitted by vgill on Wed, 09/08/2010 - 5:45am

Both of my Skids have moved in with their BM !!!!!! I am just soo happy and excited,they have lived with Dh and I since they were little kids and I am soo happy they are not here!! Not only that but it may actually be good for them, in their minds BM could do no wrong, after living with her for a while they will actually get to see why she never had custody, plus her father is dieing and has 6 months left so I think it will be good for the boys to spend as much time with him as possible before he goes.

I think I may just get my wish!!!!!!!

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Submitted by vgill on Wed, 06/02/2010 - 8:59pm

I haven't been here in a while I haven't had much time, But I may just get my wish, I almost don't want to say it out loud for fear that it won't come true... I think SS12 may move to his BM's for the summer!!!! If I am really lucky he won't ever move back!!! Even His Bdad doesn't want to spend time with him, he just can't handle what a brat this kid is!!! I am just really looking forward to a summer without this kid or his brother, both dad and I could use a break from these badly behaved children. I honestly hope they never move back here again!!!

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