I just have to look at them , hell even think about them and I become angry,defensive,panicked,and like I want to lash out at them!! I have never felt this way before in my life!!! I just want them gone and to not come back! Perhaps if they went to live with BM permenantly i could learn to tolerate every other weekend, but now just the though that I may have to endure another 6 years of them living with me makes me feel ill!!!This last 6 days without them was awsome !!! the house was peacefull, no one was disrespectful or mouthy or lazy!!

How do you get a BM to keep her kids? I don't want to straigt out say I don't want your kids(that might scar them)but I want them out of my home. Does anyone know how to word a conversation that may make her decide to keep them, she already has one living with her and I want her to take the other one. I just don't want to hurt DH by saying I don't want your kids here, and he is already stressed out, and is very unhappy with his kids behavior. What do I do?

Bm called today to find out when she can bring her boys over for Christmas, she wanted to do that today, I made excuses and said we were too busy today, so she is bringing them tommorrow. In the background I heard" we don't want to go today, take us over tommorrow night and then pick us up at noon!!" The little brats are only interested in getting gifts!! they don't want to be here for family dinner, and they don't want to go to family gettogether later that night and another one on boxing day, It's all about what they might get!!! Greedy little brats.

Is it just me or do teens that have parents that live separate have an attitude of entitlement, where they feel they should have what ever they want when ever they want it! And that things are just never good enough for them and that SM's are nothing more than maids that are supposed to buy them things ,take them places, and clean up after them? Maybe this is normal Skid teen behavior ofr I really do have the laziest, most self centered, rude and hurtful skids on the planet!