LOL! this Is funny because this validates how rotten his kids are. (not DH's fault he is actually a great father to my kids and ours!!) I posted a "baby Shower event for my brother and his wife and their new baby girl on facebook, and my brother and my oldest SS have the same name and his wife and SS's girlfriend have similar names... this is where it gets funny!! Dh's brothers and his Brother in law all replied wondering when and where the shower was and how come we never told them SS's girlfriend had a baby and they were very concerned because ss is 15 and what was going to happen to the baby and who was going to raise it. LOl!! SS15 has been having sex with his girlfriend for over a year now, and she is about as smart as a dumptruck, and as far as we know there is no baby, but nobody was all that surprised when they tought that they had a baby!! His whole family knows that these kids are rotten, Dh wasn't even uset when they all thought that, he said it wouldn't surprise me, he said BM lets that kid do whatever he wants to and he said I am not dealing with it anymore, if she wants to be supermom, let her deal with the problems. but he also said if there is ever a child he would fight to be the one to raise it, he said he doesn't want Bm to get her hands on a baby and ss15 and his girlfriend and her mother are not equipped to take care of a baby as ss is not responsible and neither is his girlfriend and her mother is as dumb as a rock, he said it would not be fun to be a grandfather before he was 40 but our youngest is 17 months old it would be better if we raised the nonexistant baby!! LOL! it was soo funny reading all the posts his brothers wrote!!!!