SD15 has started to become very intrigued by my beliefs and wants to learn more about them. I am Wiccan and I rely heavily on energies my grandmother is an energist so I look to her a lot for enlightenment. My grandmother is ill right now. A group of us got together at my house to send positive healing energy her way. We light a candle for her and wrote down positive affirmations. SD15 asked if she could join us. DH said it was fine. We didn't ask her to chant or anything just to write down something nice and burn it.

I had a verbal disagreement with MIL. I was walking firm the nursery to my room breastfeeding DD. DO you know how much of an achievement it is to hold a baby in one arm breastfeed while squatting and searching for baby wipes. I pat myself on the back for that. MIL comes up behind me from out of nowhere.

MIL: Porcelian dear. I thought we discussed you know the breastfeeding thing. I would like if you keep that private.

ME: I would like if you kept your thoughts private. I'm breastfeeding my daughter in my house I'm not harming anyone.

SDnow15 was waiting for me to pick her up in front of school. She was yelling at 3 girls who looked like they where in the mood to start a physical confrontation. They where calling SD out of her name and using profanities that would make a father blush. I pulled up and told SD to get in the car. SD walked toward the car as they continued to verbally harass her. I told them that was enough. I parked my car and got out to escort SD to the car. At this point one of the girls was pushing SD trying to instigate an altercation.

SD tried to be sneaky Saturday night. She told BM that DH was going to pick her up after dance but DH had to work late and my car needs the brakes inspected. BM actually had the forethought to call DH and make sure because we had already communicated this with her. I guess SD thought that BM didn't know this already and would just assume that DH would be picking her up unless told otherwise. Sorry SD your parents actually communicated this time. So BM called and DH told her that she already knows he can’t make it. BM and DH came up with a plan. BM didn't tell SD she was the wiser.