Last night DH took the moving van to get the last of the things to our new house leaving SD and I in the new house with some friends setting things up. I was putting some plates away and felt a sharp pain shoot through my stomach that caused me to jerk and drop a plate. SD14 came charging into the kitchen asking me if I was ok. She told me she would clean up the broken clay pieces and I should go lay down. She sent someone in to check on me and she even unpacked my bedding and helped my grandmother make the bed for me.

Just wondering if this is a hill to die on. Everytime I say something SD14 doesn't want to here she rolls her eyes. I made apple pie and told her not to eat all the ice cream because I wanted to use some as topping she slams the freezer and rolls her eyes. when she does things like that should I address it or tell DH to address it or just let it be?

I'm about to lose my head. Trying to eat dinner. Literally had to be picked up out of bed and I waddled to the dinner table trying to have a civilized meal. SD14 won't stop smacking her food. Do you really need to smack pasta stir fry that loud and slurp every bite. I asked politety twice to please stop smacking and chew with your mouth closed and she does it louder on purpose. I waddled myself back to my room with my plate and water. I've had it up to here. DH is having " a talk" with her. I can stilll hear her smacking from my room.

SD14 was in my room coming threw my accessory drawer for a scrunchie I said she could borrow. I was on the phone with a friend who couldn't make it to my shower and wanted to congratulate me on the baby. I was saying that my daughter might be an only child because I'm not sure right now if I want more than one child. My exact words where " No, She might be an only child well my only child". Maybe she didn't hear the last part or she just took it the wrong way. I didn't mean it like she is nothing to me I just meant I might not want to get pregnant again.