Dh gets a text from Puke yesterday saying that there is something going on next weekend she was wanting to go to. She played it up as "darn it, going to miss it". Now I wondered what was up when dh showed me a random "love you" text from puke the night before cuz there is nothing random about her. Dh is letting her choose if she wants to see him or go to this thing. She'll not come see him.

On vacation from work all next week. Don't have much planned. A couple day trips, lunches, and a massage.

I haven't had more than a day or two at time off of work where it wasn't an emergency involving puke. Let alone a week. I have wasted more paid time off on her than I have on me.

Going to make it clear to dh that if there is an issue with puke during my time off that he needs to hide it from me. I don't want my time to be sullied by her.

Evidently Bm had some work done to her car that cost more than she planned so now she can't afford to drive Puke to meet dh this weekend. Now Puke mentioned to dh a couple days ago that Bm was having car worked on. My thought immediately was that Puke will not be coming cuz something will happen to the car.

Now do I know for a fact that this is untrue? No. But when Puke has mentioned something like she's been sick or something like this has happened, 99% of the time Puke has not come for her visit.

This coming weekend is Puke's scheduled visit. Nothing has been worked out regarding the puppy so not sure if she'll be coming. Getting the feeling that DH will give in to her demand. I understand that he wants to see Puke, however, I feel like he is the only one willing or expected to compromise. It would be different to me if Puke had tried to find someone to watch the puppy so she could come see him. Puke acts as though seeing her is a prize for DH to win. Then Puke gets rewarded for coming again when DH swoons over her.