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Puke throws a tantrum

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Submitted by over step on Wed, 08/26/2015 - 8:16pm

So dh has a heated discussion with puke earlier tonight cuz she wants to bring the puppy this weekend. Dh says no he doesn't want the puppy here. Puke says she won't come if puppy can't but not before she blames me for dh saying no. Don't get me wrong I don't want the puppy here but he didn't discuss this with me before telling her no.

Making preparations for sd15 visit

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Submitted by over step on Wed, 08/26/2015 - 9:28am

It's Wednesday before puke is supposed to come for her weekend visit and I'm getting prepared as I normally do. Planning out my weekend to make sure I have enough to stay busy and away from her. Getting my game face on. Most of all hoping something happens and she doesn't come. I'm pretty good at predicting this by the phone conversations dh has with her the week before her visit. Usually Thursday is when the seed is planted by puke or if she is too afraid to tell Dh then bm is more than happy to drop the bomb. I know Dh is disappointed when puke cancels but I am thrilled.

DH, for the love of all that is holy stop talking to me about SD15

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Submitted by over step on Mon, 08/24/2015 - 3:11pm

I have pretty much been ignoring DH whenever he brings up Puke. Changing the subject as soon as I can. Seriously I don't want to hear about Puke. I get the feeling DH is trying to tell me all the good/cute things Puke says or does so by some miracle I'll start liking her. Cold day in hell baby! This only makes me dislike her more. And please don't talk about me to Puke. I really don't want to be associated with her other than I am married to her dad. I no longer want to be referred to as Puke's SM. I am now just the wife of someone who has a spoiled brat of a spawn child.

Dogs are a lot of work

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Submitted by over step on Thu, 08/20/2015 - 7:52am

Puke has just now realized that dogs are a lot of work. No sh*t Sherlock! Guess puke is going to a wedding out of town this weekend(which means she isn't coming here...hallelujah!) and doesn't know what to do with the puppy while she is there. Impressed that SO told her that it wasn't coming here(praise Jesus!).

Maybe I should play the lotto.

Sd says jump, dh asks how high

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Submitted by over step on Mon, 08/17/2015 - 5:57pm

Boy, puke asks dh to order something for her (with her money) and he doesn't hesitate. When I ask him to do something like pay a bill or repair something around the house I have to practically beg and then it could be days or weeks or months before he gets around to it. The funny part is puke thinks daddy's world revolves around me. How wrong is that. Puke can treat daddy like crap and get just about a get by with anything where as I am thoughtful and caring towards dh and have to beg for what I want. Things that make you go...blah!

Blog?

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Submitted by over step on Sun, 08/16/2015 - 4:12pm

So I didn't realize until recently that I have the option to blog. Then I had to read what exactly a blog is. I've heard of bloggers/blogs but haven't ever lived in that world. This is my first ever blog so hopefully I'm doing it right.

I disengaged from sd15 aka "puke" completely a few months ago and must say I feel my sanity returning. I still cringe when her name is said or when dh talks to her on the phone or I hear her voice. I can tell the instance she steps in the house. It has gotten better over time but not sure that it will completely go away.

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