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Nervous about this weekend...just needing some support

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Submitted by Nymh on Fri, 05/18/2007 - 8:28pm

BM should be served with the restraining order this weekend. I'm nervous about what's going to happen. Her nice act has been wavering and she goes back and forth from wishing me a good day to snapping at me for still not responding to her and accusing me of things. I'm worried about what's going to happen when she gets served the order. My aide at the attorney's office tried to comfort me and tell me just to take it in stride and call her on Monday to let her know everything that BM did from the moment she got served so that I can sue her.

I see your true colors shining through...

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Submitted by Nymh on Wed, 05/16/2007 - 9:52am

How many of you told me that BM's nicey-nice attitude was just an act? Those of you that did can pat yourselves on the back because you were absolutely right. A few days ago, BF's attorney went to court to represent him against her lawsuit for contempt of court over the child support arrears. That morning, as BM was on her way to court, she decided to park her car in front of BF's store and call him repeatedly until he finally answered. She demanded money from him for a trip that SS is going on, gas, lunch money, and some other reasons.

Please advise...I feel like I'm making a mistake

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Submitted by Nymh on Wed, 05/09/2007 - 6:32am

BM has been sooo pleasant lately it's almost bordering on the point of unsettling. She even sent an email to BF yesterday saying she hoped that they could get past the point of anger to being able to work together and be civil for SS's sake. She went on to say that they had the next 10 years ahead of them (SS is eight) and it would be easier on everyone if we could just get along. Well, yesterday my lawyer called me to inform me that everything was finally put together to file for my restraining order against BM.

I'm not sure if I messed up or not.

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Submitted by Nymh on Sun, 04/29/2007 - 9:41am

Do you guys ever write a letter to BM, then not send it? BM often emails me about things that really should be going through BF. Sometimes I will write out a response to her and say everything I want to say, then just delete it or save it in my drafts folder to read over later. I never send these emails because BF and I have agreed that I'm not going to speak to her anymore for the sake of our relationship (and our sanity!). Well, last night I was writing one of these emails with no intention of sending it, and BF walked up to the computer to hug on me. He saw it.

Does this ever happen to you?

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Submitted by Nymh on Sun, 04/22/2007 - 11:23am

After all the bull that BM has done lately, BF gets an email from her this morning with the subject, "Please read - Personal". Inside she talks about how she's sorry things have gone the way they've gone. She said she realized they would never get the relationship back how it was in the beginning but hoped that they could develop a friendship again. She says she wishes he had just trusted her enough from the beginning to be truthful with her (he never did lie, she's the one who continues to do so yet claims that we are).

What a liar

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Submitted by Nymh on Sat, 04/21/2007 - 11:13am

BM said that she had dropped her charges against BF and is begging us to do the same, claiming it's what's "best for SS" blah blah blah. Well, yesterday BF had his lawyer call and check on things. Imagine our suprise to find out that she hadn't actually dropped her charges. This is just classic BM. Just trying to manipulate us a lie to us and expect us to just believe her. Did she think we were just going to blindly believe her and not even check?

SS's conversations with BM have begun to change

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Submitted by Nymh on Mon, 04/16/2007 - 6:55pm

I've noticed that SS's attitude about BM's phone calls and the things that he says when he talks to her have undergone a pretty substantial change. A year ago, when BM would call (15 times) during BF and SS's visitation, their conversations would consist of her doing all the talking and him agreeing to whatever she said to get her to leave him alone. He would answer the phone cheerfully but get off the phone somewhat down. After about 15 minutes, he would be back to his normal self.

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