BF's lawyer called him over to their office today. "You DO owe BM money..." she said. BM has been submitting her EOB's from the insurance company to the lawyers and saying that BF owes her half of that amount (the amount that INSURANCE paid, when her out of pocket expense is next to nothing), which came out to about $1000. So BF's lawyer went through everything she had and found out how much BM really did pay out of pocket so we would know the real amount that BF owed BM. Guess how much BF owes?

$160.

I have been going with BF to pick ups and drop offs of SS, to offer a level-head in case things get bad, and so that if necessary I can call the cops while he drives or run the video camera. Due to the restraining order that BM and I have against each other, I wait at the end of her road (at least 1/2 mile away from her house) for him to go there and come back to get me. This, according to her, is "too close for comfort" and a violation of the restraining order (does anyone else agree with her or is it obvious she's just BSing?).

Lately BM has been really flaking out at work. They suspended her for 3 days without pay - which in my experience is pretty serious business. She's afraid she will lose her job. She already doesn't have enough money to make ends meet even though she makes more than BF and I combined on her own, and has BF's CS check monthly on top of that (though in order to explain why she's always so broke, she blames it all on him). My question is, if she loses her job..what happens to SS? Will he stay with her, and us have to pay her more to make up the difference? Or will he move in with us?

Yes, I am still alive - BM hasn't kicked me off the face of the planet yet! I just wanted to write a short entry and update you guys on what's going on in our world. Things have been rather quiet since we blocked all of BM's numbers from being able to call us. We left SS's cell # unblocked and informed her that she could call BF from his phone if she ever needed to speak to BF.