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Nymh's picture

Tonight we're supposed to get SS again. You guys probably all remember what happened last time - BM held him hostage for hours until the deputy finally convinced her to bring SS to us the next morning. BF said she's already called him five times today and she seems pissed off at the entire world and taking it out on him and SS. So I'm anticipating another round of bulls$%^ like we had last week. BF is afraid that BM will have fled with SS and won't even be there. Please keep your fingers crossed for us, I'd really love for SS to not have to see the police at his house again this weekend.

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Colorado Girl's picture

She needs to let it go. Why put your SS through this!?! So is BF ignoring the phone calls? That always fuels my BM's fire.

Good luck and big hugs!

Catch22's picture

Hope she doesn't keep putting her son through this. Selfish woman.

Catch xx
*Mean People Suck*

Nymh's picture

BF has been bringing me with him to pick up and drop off SS lately. We only started this after making sure that it was ok with SS. Of course, it's NOT ok with BM. But I don't go anywhere near her house. I wait for BF at the end of the road. Well, she told him yesterday that I had BETTER not be anywhere near HER road because it was "too close for comfort" (this coming from the same woman that after the last fiasco where BF had to get a deputy to go to her house because she was holding SS hostage, she told the deputy she was "fearful for her life" and asked the deputy to stay with her until BF was gone to make sure he didn't come back and kill her). BF said that I was almost a mile away. I told him to tell her that if she didn't want me there, the only way she could prevent that was to be waiting at the end of the road to meet him herself!

BF bought a new vehicle so of course she asked him a million questions about that when he was there. Her accounts are constantly overdrawn even though she brings home more money that BF and I combined, not including his monthly CS payment. She still maintains that he never pays her and uses that as her excuse for constantly being broke even though the check goes through the state every month like clockwork. He knew this was coming and before we left he was joking about saying "This is what you get when you don't pay child support!" LOL

*~So sayeth Nymh~*

Mocha2001's picture

Glad everything went well. I think it's funny how BMs can blame their financial problems on DH's ... Andrea does the same thing on our end. Because we didn't pay daycare one month in 2006 (when no daycare costs were incurred mind you), that is why she is having so much trouble paying for the HELOC and the mortgage. It's just pathetic how they cannot accept responsibility for their own finances and actions.

~ Katrina

Nymh's picture

Not even 2 hours ago, BF got an email from her saying "I'm glad that your son is so unimportant to you that you can go out and buy a new car for you and your tramp but you can't pay your obligations to your son". This coming several days after the check has cleared into her account for CS for this month...

*~So sayeth Nymh~*

Cruella's picture

And have their own accounting systems LOL. My skids BM in court said she made one income in her discovery yet her W2's said something completely different. It was sad that she didnt actually think we and the court would not actually ADD the numbers. DUH

AC's picture

She called you a tramp?? Has this woman totally lost her mind?

Nymh's picture

Oh honey, you must not know...I'm with HURRRR MAAAAN!

*~So sayeth Nymh~*

Nymh's picture

I called my lawyer to make sure that me waiting at the end of her road wasn't a violation of the RO. They said that as long as I'm consciously putting a distance between the two of us and I'm not going out of my way to be in her presence or contact her in any way, there's no violation and there's nothing she can do about me being there.

*~So sayeth Nymh~*