I have been going with BF to pick ups and drop offs of SS, to offer a level-head in case things get bad, and so that if necessary I can call the cops while he drives or run the video camera. Due to the restraining order that BM and I have against each other, I wait at the end of her road (at least 1/2 mile away from her house) for him to go there and come back to get me. This, according to her, is "too close for comfort" and a violation of the restraining order (does anyone else agree with her or is it obvious she's just BSing?). She knows that I come anyway regardless of her asking that I not come. So today, on our way home from dropping SS off, we weren't a mile away from her house when she came flying up and passing us like a bat out of hell. I bet she didn't even say "Hi SS! I missed you! I love you..." she must have just asked, "Was that BITCH at the end of the road? Yes? Get in the car!" She had to have left as soon as BF pulled out the driveway and must have been going at least 80MPH (in a 65) to catch us and pass us that fast. She pulls off the road and angles so that she can see us, and as we pass her she starts waving her arms and yelling (of course we can't hear her). We could see SS sitting in the back seat. After we passed, she pulled back out behind us and flashed her lights and honked her horn for a couple of miles. She finally pulled off the road and turned around to go home.

We get home to an email that says "SS's medications weren't returned! I followed you for miles flashing my lights and honking and you obviously don't care enough about your son to stop and find out what it was that I needed!" That is so much BS. His medications were zipped up in the very top of his duffel bag. That was just the first excuse she could think of. And it obviously was an excuse because she didn't give us a follow-up email to say "Oh nevermind, I found it..." Plus, with how fast she came up on us, there's no way she had time to look through all of his things and deduce that the medications weren't there. If she had spent 5 seconds to unzip his bag, she would have seen them. She just wanted to chase us down and bitch me and BF out for me being there. He started to pull off the road to talk to her and I said, "No, she's just wanting to start trouble. If she wants it bad enough she can just follow us all the way home." I wish I had thought fast enough to have been recording her as she passed us but honestly she was going so fast that I didn't have a chance.

ALSO an update on the DCS investigation. The case worker has been trying to close the investigation for two months, but BM keeps dodging the home visit to her house. The case worker decided to do a surprise visit to BM's house because of the concerns that have been voiced by BF, MIL and myself about SS's living situation there. When she finally caught BM at home, BM WOULDN'T LET HER IN THE HOUSE! SS told us that the lady showed up and asked if she could come in, and BM said NO! This is going to make her look so much worse than she's already made herself look...she's batting 1000!