I know this is a little off-topic (depending on how you look at it) but how many people here smoke? I quit several years ago and my BF hates cigarettes. He would probably leave me if I started smoking again. But lately, I've been having dreams of smoking cigarettes. I look enviously upon people I see smoking. I crave it all day, every day. This has always been a problem for me since I quit but lately I just can't stop thinking about lighting up...

I was going to just reply to my other post, but I want to write a new post for this one. BF emailed her back, willing to work with her on some things but unwilling to give away others - like holidays, for example. He also told her that as we live together and I pose no threat to SS's well being that I would not be forced away from visitation. Then there was the fact that the child support would be adjusted accordingly to what it should be given that he has SS 26 days a year now and with the proposed parenting plan he'd be getting 80+ which is a big differendce.

This update is huge and has some different parts to it...sorry if it's too long but you all know how long-winded I am! BM got the petition to modify the parenting plan in the mail yesterday. I had been wondering what she would do when she got it. I don't know why I even had any doubts. We got a phone call last night from her which was, in all honesty, very funny. She meant it to be threatening but listening to it was just so amusing. The weird thing is that she knows we're recording her phone calls and she still continues to call us and hand us stuff to use against her.

BM has been hounding us for months to give her our personal cell phone numbers. The judge and both lawyers have told her that the number she has is enough considering that she can leave a message if we are not there. Not to mention she can also email us. AND she can call BF's mother and ask her to pass the message along. There are a dozen ways that she could indirectly get into contact with us, but that's not good enough for her. She wants to be able to reach US specifically no matter when or why or where, at her whim and fancy.