So our court date went great. BM was told off by judge and told she was poison to her 6 yr old son. The judge signed into order the visitation and phone schedule. BM either is deaf or just plain stupid. Friday night the boy had to wait at our house for the phone call from his mother before he could go spend the night. BM never called during her time frame so I unplugged the phone from the wall and took ss to his friends house. When I arrived home BM had sent texts to DH asking where her son was and stating that the people the boy was staying with were not answering the phone.

so our wonderful visitation order was signed by the judge finally. BM gets ss6 3 weekends out of the month but she has to do 90% of the driving. each visit so far there has been an excuse that makes us go out of our way for her stupidity. first she ran out of gas and had to drive back and get more which she claims wasn't something she could control then she says she can't drive in rain without 4 wheel drive. this woman wants to be a lawyer thats the scary thing. she is truly the most stupid butt person ive met.

Last week my DH had a heart attack while at home with ss. he was unresponsive and was sent to ICU for a few days. He stayed in the hospital for a week. Many things were factors into my DH heart attack however an overdose like his ex wife has claimed and taken him to court for and also filed for a temporary custody order. A certain medicine was given to my DH when he came in that is given for people who overdose however standard protocol for a hospital is to give that medicine if the person isnt breathing right. no doctor treated or declared overdose and DH wouldn't do that.

So the BM attorney told my and DH to act like adults when it comes to visitation rights and who can pick up and take SS6. This woman has called DH and i fat, stupid, uneducated and mentally abusive. all our recorded under text message. how long should DH and i have to wait until we say only contact between parents can be made between email unless there is a medical emergency. We only got a home phone for the BM to call her son yet she still uses my DH cell. it's very frustrating and rude. her new bf even gets in the mix yet we haven't said one word about him.