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I feel horrible and stuck

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Submitted by mndblwn on Thu, 01/19/2012 - 9:08am

I love DH with everything and we are having our first baby together in August. I love knowing that soon I will have a kid of my own because hopefully that will take me away from my nasty stepson as much as possible. It's not really that he is necessarily nasty. He is seven and spoiled ROTTEN by his BM. Last night I heard him tell her that he only got 3 things from us for his birthday. Then he says that getting more would have been better. This child gets a toy EVERY weekend (which is three a month) from her when he goes to see her.

Why Even Have A CO?

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Submitted by mndblwn on Tue, 01/17/2012 - 7:17pm

BM refuses to follow the CO how it's newly written. She thinks that we like her so much we are going to break the phone contact times for her and that she can just pick up skid whenever she feels on Thursdays to start out her weekends.
DH follows the CO to an exact point. If he misses his call time he doesn't text her or try to call after the time. It's just missed. He always is where he is supposed to be to pick skid up and drop him off and we also give proper notice upon leaving the state. He even keeps skid home at the phone time just so the call can be completed.

Just Can't Stand

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Submitted by mndblwn on Mon, 01/16/2012 - 9:29am

I just can't stand my stepson. He just turned 7 yrs old. He doesn't listen to either of his parents, doesn't do his chores, backtalks both parents and is very very sneaky. He gets told to do things everyday and still is a slack of a kid and doesn't do it just 5 minutes later. He runs in the house even after slipping and getting a massive black eye. He doesn't want to say thank you or please and thinks he is owed everything in life and that his parents will do it for him.

Should we go back to Court or wait some time?????? HELP

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Submitted by mndblwn on Mon, 01/09/2012 - 12:18pm

BM is outrageous. She put us through hell to get the visitation she has now but because she got a full time job she wants us to cater to her instead of her sacrificing visitation. She threatens to take skid off her insurance which is ordered in the divorce decree if we don't drive half way to meet her for visitation pickup and dropoff. Then she picks of skid 5.5 hrs after she is supposed to on thursday to not get back home until 1am with him after she has worked all day and drove.

When To Put The Foot Down

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Submitted by mndblwn on Thu, 01/05/2012 - 6:09pm

So BM and DH went through hell and back to come up with their new visitation schedule. BM at the time of court was going to work part time from home and be a full time mother. DH has a full time job as a school teacher and works 4 times a week. The visitations and times were all in place and all was good....for awhile. BM decided to become a true adult and get a full time job working 8-5 monday through friday. Our pickup times on the weekend for return to school are still kept at 5pm because no one works on sunday.

Skid and BM need to go

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Submitted by mndblwn on Tue, 12/20/2011 - 6:58pm

I truly can't stand BM and her spawn. BM tries to lie and change stories to sound like she is superior. Then when you bombard her with true facts and put her in he place she does a 180 and is nice, sweet and charming to the point I want to puke.
If she doesn't get her way she acts like her spawn and throws fits and holds grudes.
Her spawn then is so annoying that I separate myself from him and DH each night he is with us. THe spawn purposely talks about his mom to me and what she buys him...which is a toy every weekend and then legoland this weekend.

The Insanity of BM

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Submitted by mndblwn on Mon, 11/07/2011 - 7:08pm

Again this woman is dumb. She complains about skid losing first tooth with us yet when skid looses next tooth with her, she looses it in her trash of a car.
Then wants to take skid for her weekend while she is on a business trip and the kid has to be babysat? Why not just let the kid stay home instead of running him around everywhere?
She ahs every opportunity to keep an award from school but sends it back to us. If you were proud of your kid wouldn't you want things to keep of his? Does she want to be a mother all the time or only to keep skid away from DH?

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