SD9 posted a new tiktok video at her friend's house. It's about her scamming her friend when they trade fidget toys. She flat out says I'm gonna scam her, that's why I made her add more. And then at the end "guys, we got a lot out of her let's do it to someone else now"

She really is such a sweet little angel.

So first of all, I'm in the process of cleaning out what was SDs old room and turning it into DS3s room and it feels SO GOOD. Clears out some of the negative vibes in that area of the house. 

Second, I'm realizing that over time I've really stopped caring very much at all if something affects SD because A. Not my kid, not my problem and B. Regardless of how hard we tried to be good to her we've been demonized and the evil stepmom label was slapped on me anyway. So screw it, might as well be one.

Another realization about the situation regarding SIL and SD: this is the exact same thing she did to both her ex husband and the friend she lived with after. Got mad at them and all of a sudden started claiming they were abusive. 

Makes me wonder if she's the one pushing BM to take SD fulltime and get all the welfare, since that's the same thing SIL did.

I'm living my life for myself and my children now. No consideration whatsoever for DHs family. And those toxic psychopaths won't be in my home or around my children. No consideration for BM. Very limited consideration for SD. And any of them can take their opinions and shove them because there was never a way to win anyway and I'm not going to be held emotionally hostage to a bunch of lunatics through a 9 year old. 

That is all.