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ANOTHER cute tiktok video and plans for this weekend

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Mon, 04/05/2021 - 4:23pm

So last night SD9 posted 2 tiktok videos at about 1 am. One of which says duet or do the dirty with your 1st @. 

Instead of playing legos with daddy this weekend, per her request via the school counselor, her and ODS10 will be watching a video series for kids on internet safety. And discussing the content of the videos. She can have fun "reporting" that to the counselor and BM. 

BM and SIL spend Easter together

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Mon, 04/05/2021 - 8:26am

So BM, SD and SIL spent Easter together. I'm sure mainly because they both have no one else.

Now, DH and I have zero desire to have anything to do with SIL. But what really gets under my skin: BM thinking she's getting one over on us. The smugness about it ughhh.

Oh and SD is absent from school today and so far is unexcused. Which means BM didn't call the school yet.

More tiktok posts at BMs from SD

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Fri, 04/02/2021 - 1:16pm

As a recap, SD prefers BMs house because she has free access to whatever online there and not here.

I think I already posted about the one where she holds up a knife, and the one she posted with BM where they ask a magic 8 ball "is my mom crap?" but here's a couple new ones

One where she's shaking her butt dancing weird and at the end it says "don't look at my privet." 

MIL attends the birthday party

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Mon, 03/29/2021 - 9:18am

Shockingly, MIL and FIL showed up to DS3s birthday party. Even more shockingly- there were no mention of or questions about SD not being there. And MIL appeared quite sheepish. 

So best guess is that she deleted DH and I in a fit of anger and now feels stupid. Still not 100% what that anger was about. 

On the BM front, SD is now up to 19 tardies and 4 absences this school year. Last week tardy every single day. Mother of the year is doing great.

Another email from the school counselor pt 2

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Thu, 03/25/2021 - 6:04pm

Sorry for the blog hogging today, but need some more feedback. So we're considering since the story to the school counselor is that DH doesn't give SD attention, and the reality is that SD wants to sit on her tablet and talk to people online all day and post tiktok videos, that maybe we should take away her tablet and have her do "family time" activities with all of us all weekend that she's probably going to hate. 

Or should we go the other route and let her sit in her room most of the day like usual? 

Another email from the school counselor

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Thu, 03/25/2021 - 3:31pm

So we got another email from the school counselor. All it says is:

Hi, we were wondering when SDs next weekend with dad is? SD is planning on spending some more time with dad next time she is there. She would like to play some legos with him. Looking forward to her report.

Wtf?!

I'm getting pretty irritated that some stranger that hasn't spoken to DH is dictating to us what we're going to be doing specifically with her and needs to know what weekend she's going to be here.

 

OT - lost a good friend today

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Wed, 03/24/2021 - 2:26pm

So today one of my best friends was talking about the #metoo movement and how she will always believe women no matter what. I strongly disagreed with that and gave several examples why. And she just kept pushing with how all men are capable of rape and there's more shitty men than women. And then telling me that I'm invalidating her experiences by not agreeing with her.

SDs tiktok

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Sat, 03/20/2021 - 11:30pm

So SD9 has a tiktok account. Which I feel is unnecessary for her age to start with. So most of it is just really weird random nothing. But there's one video where it's a duet and half the screen his her and half another video. The other half is things to kill people with and her half she holds up a knife. So my first thought is has BM seen this? There's no way. Well, there's another video that BM is in where they do a magic 8 ball and she says "Is my mom crap?" And the 8 ball says yes and they both laugh.

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