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Another Fun event with a fly in my ointment

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Submitted by CLove on Sat, 08/28/2021 - 1:34pm

Quickie vent here. So Husband gets a request last night (Friday) at school pick up drop off from SD15 B/M asking if she can get a ride to an event this afternoon(Saturday).

This event is HUGE, its the biggest free music/art festival of the entire year. An entire small city has all the streets blocked off. There will be a big tribute to a local musician who passed away last year, a friend of ours. This is our skid-free weekend. I bought us tickets to a concert afterwards.

The End of the Bunny Ta(i)l(e)

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Submitted by CLove on Fri, 08/20/2021 - 10:42am

Bad Bunny has been buried.

Yesterday, after DH picked up Sd15 B/M from school, he took her to a local beach down the road, she dug a hole in the sand, and they said a prayer as they piled the sand over BB.

He took photos of SD on a driftwood log, looking very sad. Some photos of the sun setting over the ocean. We all three reviewed them together, so that was very nice

I was not invited for some reason, but Im going to let that one go. Well, not really, but Im letting it go for now.

RIP Bad Bunny.

Bad Bunny

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Submitted by CLove on Thu, 08/19/2021 - 12:36pm

You had to go and kick the bucket didnt you? You couldnt do it next week (our off week), or last weekend...

A very sweet bunny, however this bunny has caused me much grief, without even trying. Not the garden variety "oh you ate my prized tree!" kind of grief.

The kind that spans the entire time Ive been in this - 7 years. Im having flashbacks of the arguments this bun bun has caused. The conflicts it is continuing to cause, even through his passing.

RIP to ... Disengagement?

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Submitted by CLove on Wed, 08/18/2021 - 6:51pm

Ok, folks, so I have some things weighing heavily on my mind.

SD15 backstabber's bunny crossed the rainbow bridge today.

The last bunny that did this, it was from Toxic Trolls apartment, and we buried it in the backyard. Tears and all that.

This one is an older bunny, and again there will be tears.I merely said "Im really sorry".

I am disengaged, so I doubt that I will want to participate in another tear-filled Bunny Crossing. Or I guess this supercedes the disengagement manifesto?

Another thing is on my mind.

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Planning 101

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Submitted by CLove on Tue, 08/10/2021 - 1:30pm

Im a planner. I just really cant help it! And now, since I'm disengaged-disengaging, I'm curious about, with this disengagment, what everyone did once the skid "aged out". I hear all the time "it doesnt end when they age out!", but certain things certainly do.

Im just thinking, does a disengaged stepper plan and need to know the "launch process plans"?

Schedule Blues (& Grays)

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Submitted by CLove on Thu, 08/05/2021 - 9:49pm

SO, DH waited until today to ask SD15 Backstabber/Munchkin to ask her mother to change the schedule.

He specified Monday-Sunday. I specifically had discussed Monday-Monday (like it was before for oh, about a million years, before B/M decided SHE wanted a change because of some convoluted excuse of I dont want to log in and show everyone my mothers apartment...something she didnt quite explain very well, which we were sympathetic to AT THE TIME).

ACK! When dealing with these people you have to be VERY firm. And VERY detailed/definite.

The Communication Talk

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Submitted by CLove on Thu, 08/05/2021 - 10:50am

Is that a double negative? LOL. I had a talk with DH last night.

Basically hammering home the point that I need communication. I need to be included in things that have to do with SD15 Backstabber.

Situation:

School started yesterday (Wednesday), and thats typically our "changeover day" that was started last school year because thats what Backstabber wanted. 

The Ironic Television Tale

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Submitted by CLove on Mon, 08/02/2021 - 3:50pm

SO! A little bit of and update and funny story too.

This weekend was marvelous! In so many many ways.

DH is back to DH. Hes been the pink of perfection on many levels. My friends are wonderful and I have been spending time and making plans (that do NOT include SD15 Backstabber, and some that do NOT include DH). 

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