Bad Bunny
You had to go and kick the bucket didnt you? You couldnt do it next week (our off week), or last weekend...
A very sweet bunny, however this bunny has caused me much grief, without even trying. Not the garden variety "oh you ate my prized tree!" kind of grief.
The kind that spans the entire time Ive been in this - 7 years. Im having flashbacks of the arguments this bun bun has caused. The conflicts it is continuing to cause, even through his passing.
There was the time that SDthen 15 Feral Forger wanted to put the bunny on the furniture (and not potty trained - was peeing and pooing all over things) and argued when I asked her to please put the bunny on a towel spcifically allotted for that purpose. This was the first time that FF uttered the statement "why cant you be on my side, IM your CHILD and thats your GIRLFRIEND!"
Well, Ive learned a lot over these 7 years. I did have a backsliding moment. When I asked Husband when we were going to bury bad bunny, and he stated "I dont know", I took it upon myself to knock on Precious Princess BAckstabbers door, wait for her to open for discussion (heard the HUUUUUGE sigh of her frustration over having to cut the phone call off temporarily, but darned if I was going to be accused of harassing her through the door again...) and then asked what she wanted to do, as it was garbage day (today-Thursday) and we needed to get the cage cleared and out.
But she had other plans, and didnt want to deal with it. I gave an hour. She slammed the door in my face. Husband heard this.
He texted her "what do you want to do with bad bunny?"
She texted back "bury her".
He texted "ok, do it now." We argued about it. Because Im now the bad guy pushing this.
Backstabber: sob sob sob.
Me: "Im very sorry for your loss, she was a VERY sweet (bad) bunny, who was really there for you during many hard times, and good times too". Hug hug. Darn, Im learning to play this game too well.
Backstabber: Its ok. Sob sob sob.
Darn, I wish I could cry like she does. Problem is, she certainly wasnt crying while on the phone to her friend, I actually heard her laughing and giggling. For a few hours before this little sob show.
Disengagement mode has sapped my sympathy tank dry. I feel zero sympathy, but Im saying all the right words.
RIP Bad Bunny. I hope that the arguments go with you.
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Darlin', next time send your
Darlin', next time send your DH a'knockin' on Backstabber's door to ask her questions. *kiss2*
Had a backslide
YUP. And there will be a time that this will come up and I have this statement tatooed on my brain...
In fact, tonight I go back to the gym. They can deal with it however they want. I told Husband "just deal with it".
I rember one time SD was
I rember one time SD was "sick" and supposedly throwing up. Well she left the bathroom door open for sympathy (she was in the hall bathroom). I walked by and closed it. (I dont need to see anyone throwing up). A few minutes later I heard her cell phone drop. She was texting a friend while supposeldy getting sick!
YEAH.
Ive heald the hair and and cleaned the puke. Well no more getting used like a rag and thrown away.
Sympathy rag is retiring.
Geeeze she really did that?
Yup and one time she had
Yup and one time she had cramps due to her period and had to lay in front of the fireplace in the living room 'to feel better". Give me a break! I never made a show of my period in front of my father!
So the body is still in the cage?
So the body is still in the cage? And they are both home not doing anything of any importance? I have buried many a dead animal, and the longer you wait the more the body starts to decay. What exactly are they waiting for? You should put the cage in either the man cave or her room.
They still want to pet Bad Bunny I guess?
Hugs and kisses too.
Im not even going to check to see if its still there (Ok I might).
The body of the poor bunny is
The body of the poor bunny is rotting in a cage??? And your DH and SD are too lazy to bury it???? And they get snippy with YOU when you try to make arrangements??????
Water Works
Sd was crying when she came out to the kitchen to inquire about dinner.
But I seriously heard her laughing and chatting on the phone minutes earlier...!
And the door slam (face palm, what did I expect!!!)
I know! I just realized this
I know! I just realized this too.
If it was there for more than 12 hours, then I'd just go bury it and say my goodbyes. Hell, you don't keep dead things in the house like that! NO.
outside
luckily the bunnies are both outside.
So the bunny who is still alive
So the bunny who is still alive has to sit in his cage next to his dead friend? That is even worse!
yeah, he got freaked out
I was told by SD15, "yeah he was running around in circles".
Not that she cared much about that. She was too sad about the dead bun bun.
SMDH.
Stop asking either of these
Stop asking either of these halfwits anything. Go bury the damn bunny and be done with it...if/when they finally get off their electronics and notice it's very simple "Bunny was rotting and starting to smell so I dealt with it, if either one of you cared you would have done something about it yourselves."
Stop lowering your standards to theirs. You say your DH married up, then make him f@cking work for it! Make him work on upping his standards in life. Who cares about back stabber, she's not your kid, let her complain to her low life trash mother...what's the worst that happens....they hate you even more?
Yes, they will definitely hate me more
Before long. Because Im sick of them, and my patience isnt very thick right now.
Yepp!! No f'n way would I let
Yepp!! No f'n way would I let a dead animal just sit rotting away in the cage because of skids or SO's feelings. This wouldn't happen in our house though..
Clove I'm not trying to sound rude but that's disgusting. Go bury the bunny if they are that lazy and if ANYONE gives you an attitude for it.. I'd walk right the f out for the time being....
Ill find out tonight when I get home
Its only 1:45 here so, Ill get home around 5:30, check things and go to the gym.
Poor thing. It should be
Poor thing. It should be buried or properly disposed of by a vet ASAP. It's just so sad and undignified to leave it to decompose in a cage. Not your problem of course. Just a lack of humanity from it's owners.
Pet deaths are a hot button for me. I'm a dog person, but I rescued and fostered an abandoned pet bunny a few years ago. From that experience, I found out I was NOT a bunny person, but she received vet care, was spayed, and ended up in a forever home.
It's so good of you to be the one looking out for the bun.
Yea - it was a sucky thing.
She was chatting away for a few hours on her phone while bunny just sat there mouldering. Husband just sat in his chair.
The more I learn about your DH
The more I learn about your DH, the more think he is at the root of almost all of your issues. You really do deserve better. You are a compassionate and loving woman who is willing to do almost anything for those you care about. Unfortunately, those you care about do not appreciate or deserve you.
Him and Toxic Troll
Which Im starting to understand why she is so Toxic...
So sorry. I can't understand
So sorry. I can't understand that attitude from your SD and DH. My semi-senior pup was sick a week ago, and it devastated me. (He's totally okay now). I can't fathom leaving him alone. Poor bun left alone in a cage.
Cold and Callous
To me...
Sadly, it seems that your problem is
45% H,, 45% TT and 10% BSM
Sadly
I agree...
Time to put the remains of BB
Time to put the remains of BB in Backstabbers room. If it rots, so be it. She should have no choice but to stay in that room until she deals with the body and any nasty crap that she allows to progress by not addressing it.
Or.. toss it in the yard outside of her window and let her watch the birds, etc.... take care of it. Once the bones are picked clean, have it mounted and give it to her and FF as a joint gift on a special occassion.