Thank you for everyones spport. It is truly a huge help in this battle for souls.

I lost the battle. Little Darling SD14 won. She won complete unfettered access to her phone and her friend. She won complete freedome at school. She won. But she lost me. She lost my time, resources, attention and intention for her ultimate good. She lost me, for the foreseeable future, as well she lost all days languishing at home with me while DH is out fishing.

If you are tired of my posts, no worries, move along.

Im angry. Angrier than angry. While the previous 2 days I was heartbroken, distressed, sad, and grieving, today I am madder than mad.

Well, thanks folks. The advice given was very gentle and very to the point (but too late because I already did my damage apparently).

Munchkin Sd14 is going to keep her phone, and going to stay with Toxic Troll and Toxic Troll is filing for full custody.

And DH is losing his daughter because of me.

Apparently I underestimated the Genetic Legacy.

Just got a full on long text from munchkin.

- Basically shes accusing me of calling her a liar. I said she misrepresented a few things to me and lets move on and solve the issue.

Yep, so this morning, because DH claims that he doesnt have the ability to manage Munchkins schooling and that I over think, I sent him screen captures of her Gradebook from Parent Portal with a summary (failing orchestra, doing poorly in English, but everything else is good) then the screen caps of details, missing work etc in all classes.