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Bm taking taxes and more of my patience!!!!!!!!

whatnow's picture

So my husband has 2 ex wives. Yeah me!!!!!!!! Anyway he is and was severly behind in child support to ex #1. This in part because ex #2 did the books for the business that they had and never paid anything. So last year she took half of our taxes, I filed the injured spouse report, this year we really need it and asked her please not to take them, but she is. Then she lied about it. I always have my SD, I love her as if she were my own. Her mom however pawns her off all the time. I am so fed up with the whole situation.

SS wants to play sports

missangie1978's picture

SS is 10 and he's never really been into sports but now that he's been living with us he has decided he wants to plays sports. Fine by us but the only issue is that BM has him every other Friday night through Sunday night so if he plays on a sports team he missed 50% of all games.

We talked to BM but she's not willing to drive him to any games or allow us to do so.

What would you do in the situation?

Disengaging in three, two, one . . .

stepmasochist's picture

I told FH to f@#$ off today.

It came about because he's off work today because he twisted his ankle. I asked him if he'd do some laundry and he told me "He'd think about it."
He said I've had a bug up my butt nagging him lately.
Which I have because he's been irresponsible. The weekend before last, I ended up spending a whole day doing his and his kids friggin' laundry - 12 effin' loads!!! While he was out fishing. And last weekend, he spent an entire weeks worth of our grocery budget to go camping.

Acupuncture,,Ever had one?

sunshine's picture

Totally off normal subject,,, but the reason I ask is because my husband has made me an appointment for this Friday. I am scared to death. Just the thought of needles scares the crap out of me. I have talked to some friends and some say you cant go wrong with ancient chinese medicine. So what is your view of this procedure.

I thought valentines day would be relaxing not being poked with needles!!

SD's School GGGRRRR What Can I do

baybee9404's picture

I emailed my SD's school director today to inform her that my sd's doctor wants her to be placed in behavioral therapy for her behavior issues,(SD has austism) and the directors response was Before I go into depth about what the school district is responsible for, I probably should ask if you have any legal custody with the child. Even though you are probably her primary caretaker, if you do not have any legal rights, technically I should not be discussing the child's program with you. I don't want my communication with you to cause future problems for you and your family.

Bad day...

Colorado Girl's picture

Nobody wants to contribute money.

Neither of the men who took part in the creation of my children has paid child support in almost 6 months.

BM won't reimburse the $150 she owes for the sports programs DH signed the girls up for.

All the kids have been sick and two (one biokid and one skid) have taken trips to the doctor. No reimbursing of copays or prescriptions from BM or exH.

Nobody wants to help pay for anything but me.

SS12 in trouble but what’s fair

lil_teapot's picture

FH got the call yesterday from bm that ss12 had been in a fight at school. The story goes, he’d been picking at some kid who eventually got tired of it and hauled off and socked him one. That sounds completely plausible. He picks at SS13 and tries to push his buttons…ss13 holds back because he could really hurt ss12, he’s that much bigger and stronger.

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