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BM can even make DH's hospital stay about her...

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DH was admitted to the hospital this evening. He's having a very bad reaction to some medication he was taking. So bad that that he was triaged in through the emergency room right away and the ER doctors contacted the large hospital in the big city near us to get an opinion on whether or not he should be transferred. I cried on my whole drive home from work because I was so worried about him. 

glitter bombed, likely by BM

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DH recently received a "glitter bomb" in the mail...an anonymous tube that spews glitter everywhere when opened. I wish I had opened the package, because I don't think I would have opened the anonymously sent tube. However, because DH's name was on it, he said 'what's this?" and then pink glitter was everywhere. It was sent by a company that allows you to send anonymous "pranks" to "your enemies." 

Skids driving DH crazy

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Under the new alternating holiday schedule, DH has SKids for four days over New Year's (turns into 7 when you tack on his visitation weekend). With that in mind, I decided to extend my time with my family and let DH "celebrate" New Year's alone with his children. I become certain that my choice was the right one after BM tried to cause drama over drop off because "how dare DH expect her to drop off the kids when she had to work on the 30th!" Too bad that their agreement says she had to drop them off at that time, also, I think she works from home most days.

"You need to put the kids first!!!" - Holiday edition

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If you've read some of my other blogs, you know about my meddling MIL and what a terrible drama fest Christmas is every year thanks to BM's insistence that she get the children EVERY CHRISTMAS EVE...even though she and her lawyer recently agreed to and signed an agreement stating that they alternate Christmas every year (giving each parent from 9am on December 23rd through 6pm on December 27th every other year). Since signing the agreement, BM has ignored most of the things they agreed to and vowed not to follow the Christmas provision. 

BM’s pleas for “kindness”

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In the last two weeks alone, BM has sent DH messages telling him he’s the most immature and selfish person she ever met, telling him that she has to communicate with him through the children because he doesn’t want to hear from her, then telling him how he makes the children upset with his responses. She also continues to text and call SSs constantly when they are with us, asking if they are okay. Commiserating on how terrible we are (in particular, how terrible it was that DH yelled at one SS after he hit the other SS in the face in front of DH).

Another of BM's pets has been deemed unworthy

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Less than two years ago, BM got a second cat as a gift for SSs. Apparently, for the past few months, BM has been eager to off load this cat, because in her view "it's just mean" and despite all her efforts just doesn't like her or anyone else in the house. 

This is in addition to the hunting dog BM got about 8 months ago, that gets no exercise and limited things to play with, but according to BM, can't behave because she has a chemical imbalance and needs medication. Just like SSs who are now both medicated. 

MIL ruins Christmas again...and has set the stage for a terrible Christmas in 2020 as well.

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My MIL (and the rest of DH’s family) manage to turn me into a Scrooge every year for Christmas.

Up until this year, DH had to split Christmas with BM, meaning he didn’t have his kids until 10am on Christmas Day.

So tired of manipulative, tattletale SS

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I’m so, so tired of my manipulative tattletale SS. I was hopeful that because he was going to counseling that he would learn that as a teen, he needs to stop trying to manipulate DH by crying to BM about everything, but no, after counseling didn’t lead to the counselor telling everyone that SS should stop seeing DH, BM stopped taking him.

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