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COULD IT POSSIBLY BE THAT BM HAS LEARNT OR IS IT SOMETHING ELSE!!??
So, BM is a crock of sh*t normally......and has been for the last, well lifetime.......however, Im sensing a change of direction slightly with her. SD7 appears to be cleaner, a bit more grounded and has a better routine now BM is working again, sd7 is even happier, if not more expectant and catty (but we accept that cos thats what BM encourages and molds). Even OH has passed small comments on certain situations.
"Well of course SS19 is going to say that!!" Get a grip OH!!!
So, after all the recent outbursts from SS17 and SS19...there has still be no contact from either of them. OH saw SS19 a couple of weeks ago and had a go at him for his attitude, ignorance, being a lazy dosser and using OH when and if required....so the normal sh*t thats been the same for last 100 eons!!
Bad dreams dont come true do they!!??? lol
Had a dream last night, whilst OH was working.....that after everything that has happened and how SS19 has behaved, that he suddenly turned up at my door....I should have woke myself up, but decided to to see how this nightmare went.......anyways, he knocked the door, asked after his dad, he wasn't there at the time and SS19 was told this, he still insisted on coming in...and then somehow he was in my hallway!!.....he said he had lost his flat, was desperate etc etc....I never really spoke, but he was walikng round my home as if he owned it!....OH then returned home.....SS19 told his dad wh
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OH REFUSING to discuss the bedroom situation re new baby
Okay, I live in a 3 bed property, OH moved in with me with just his clothes, and I welcomed him and his kids into my home. His kids don not live with us, never have really, just SS's stopped with us for a few months at a time until their "mommy" accepts them back into the fold...........
Anyway, Im pregnant, and Ive asked on here before for advice re the bedroom situation, I have my own views on this, but I want to hear yours.......so to explain.......
Also my BD made a confession to me last night that hurt..
My BD is only 6...she is 7 in 20 days!!!
Anyway, we were chatting last night...she had some new boots for winter last week and has new jeans and stuff being delivered next week. I asked her if she was still happy with her boots and she was, but then said...
"but Ive not shown SD6"....
I asked her why not and her reply shocked me! My BD6 said
"whats the point, all I get is nasty looks and nasty eyes and then she tells me its not fair that you bought for me and not her"....
Me being selfish maybe...but am I not entitled to be?
On weekends, we have SD on alternate days, for example this week she will sleep at ours tonight and go to MIL tomorrow evening, my BD6 will sleep at her dad's tomorrow evening too, but next week MIL will have SD on Friday night and we will have her on Saturday night (my BD will be with her dad on the Friday and home for Saturday)
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THANKYOU ALL!! Your comments and advise in the mess that the SKIDS create is my escape form knowing im not nuts!
We not heard anything from either SS17 or SS19 after recent events. Im trying to concentrate on my BD6 and my baby growing within me. Aty 4 1/2 months gone, I dont need this sh*t at all....which is one of the reasons OH p*ssed me off with the "SS19 should come to mine for food then"...oh yeah, Ill work all day and cook for a dosser. You know the worst part, "apparently" the jobcentre who is sorting his benefits has "screwed up"....its always them that screw up....never SS19.......
He couldnt even be bothered to sort his wages out properly when he did work...lazy...
THANKYOU ALL!! Your comments and advise in the mess that the SKIDS create is my escape form knowing im not nuts!
We not heard anything from either SS17 or SS19 after recent events. Im trying to concentrate on my BD6 and my baby growing within me. Aty 4 1/2 months gone, I dont need this sh*t at all....which is one of the reasons OH p*ssed me off with the "SS19 should come to mine for food then"...oh yeah, Ill work all day and cook for a dosser. You know the worst part, "apparently" the jobcentre who is sorting his benefits has "screwed up"....its always them that screw up....never SS19.......
He couldnt even be bothered to sort his wages out properly when he did work...lazy...
SS19 arrested and BM house raided!!
Yup....thats right...but what makes me laugh is the Bullsh*t story SS19 came up with!..........
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Do I keep quiet or blow OH's world apart with possible revelation on SS17
Okay, SS17 (as previous blogs) has been at it as per usual. I think I mentioned previously that we had been told SS17 was taking cocaine, and OH was devastated and angry. Anyway, OH assumed that because SS17 owed money to the dealer (the dealer being his BM's brother) that SS17 couldnt get anymore.....