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Do you ever look at the BM and think What possessed you??
This will be funny, but have you ever looked at BM, really really looked at her, and thought How and Why?
Is it wrong to say that I dont think they should sleepover anymore?
Ok, This is just a quick one that Id like you wonderful people to advise me on....
It seems BM may have told a porky and wanted a holiday!
OH has been trying to contact BM on when she is returning with SD7.....and apparently she didnt travel down until the day AFTER she kicked off about return times....now we have been suspicious about BMP's dad being ill at all, so in all this massive emergency has taken them a total of 6 days....to travel to X place, so we are more suspicious....and now it turns out that she can confirm that BMPs dad will be better by the weekend and she will be back then.....
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And SD7 has told us when we are ALLOWED to decorate the nursery!? lol
:jawdrop:
Now, I totally understand that SD7 is losing her room at my home, and I get that it could be quite upsetting for her too...so I have encouraged and the change all fun and something to look forward too....said how things will look, where things will go etc....I also bought the underbed storage boxes on Friday gone and explained to SD7 what they were for and why.....she was soooo excited! lol...she happliy packed her toys away and helped to sort out what toys she wanted rid of, what she wanted to take home and what she wanted left.......
And SD7 has told us when we are ALLOWED to decorate the nursery!? lol
:jawdrop:
Now, I totally understand that SD7 is losing her room at my home, and I get that it could be quite upsetting for her too...so I have encouraged and the change all fun and something to look forward too....said how things will look, where things will go etc....I also bought the underbed storage boxes on Friday gone and explained to SD7 what they were for and why.....she was soooo excited! lol...she happliy packed her toys away and helped to sort out what toys she wanted rid of, what she wanted to take home and what she wanted left.......
So BM makes the plans, we plan around them, then BM changes her mind and its our fault cos we have plans!?
All this cr*p about BM and travelling to X place......she told OH that SD7 had to be back by Saturday afternoon, so OH made plans with SS19....this had been in place since Tuesday gone.....
Out of OH and SS19 the cocaine wrapper belonged too.....
OH said it was him.....it was an old wrap, he found it under his car seat, got weak and took it......trouble is, Im wondering if he is covering for SS19 due to the scenario that unfolded on Saturday evening......
so out of OH and SS19...who left the cocaine wrapper...
Ive left this to bubble up and its driving me mental.....but as previous blog, SS19 turned up out of the blue as if all was ok on Tuesday gone (Friday today)...anyway, early hours of Wednesday morning I wasnt well, so was up at 3.30 and then gave up on sleep at 5.30.....anyway, on a trip to the bathroom at 3.30 I noticed something on the side of my bath, but being shattered paid no attention and went back to bed, at 5.30 ish into the bathroom again again I noticed it but this time investigated....now, I have NEVER in my life touched a drug other than alcohol and cigarettes....anything else
BM sunk to a new low...
SD7 has only been attending school for two years out of the 3 years because BM couldnt be bothered to enrole her.....I was the one that started the ball rolling and basically shopped BM in (its illegal in the UK to not be in full time school by 5 years)...anyway, she was had proper by education authority even though she tried to hide, and now SD7 is at school, behind yes, but catching up brilliantly with all the extra help she receives.
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Well whaddaya know...SS19 IS indeed alive!
I personally have not seen him for just over 4 months, and OH as seen him twice in that timescale and spoke to him a handful of times and argued with SS19 numerous times.....now, given the t*t strop OH had with me about me wanting to take my son to footie etc................have a wild guess who turned up "un-announced" on Tuesday evening.......YUP, only SS19!!!!!!!
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