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OH trying to force relationship between me and SS17

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Submitted by stressedstep on Mon, 04/28/2014 - 5:40am

Hi All,

Its been a while since Ive been on here, I think im storing things up lol. Anyways, as you may (or may not be) aware from my blog, my relationship with SS17 is none exsistant. Anyway, as per usual, SS17 is hitting out.....again.....and everyone is expected to feel sorry for poor old SS17.....except I dont.

I pray everyday he doesnt ask to move back in..

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Submitted by stressedstep on Mon, 03/31/2014 - 8:01am

This is something that is bothering me really bad. SS17 was kicked out of his moms for being a s**t basically. He moved in with OH and me. He refused to abide by the rules and ultimately caused alot of damage to my home.

He moved out cos he wouldnt take the punishment that OH gave him. At 17 (he not actually 17 until June might I add)he feels he should not take orders from anyone but himself. So SS17 moved into an aunts of her GF, who is also his Best mates mom.

SS19 bought me a Mothers Day Card!!!!

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Submitted by stressedstep on Mon, 03/31/2014 - 6:12am

:jawdrop: I know!!!

OH and me were on our way home form taking our moms out for dinner, SS19 calls and asks if OH is home and what not. OH says no, so they have a little convo on the phone.

SS19 told OH;

SS19 "Ive bought StessedStep a card for mothers day dad"

OH "Have you son!? Can I ask why?" (he was curious, as was i as to why he had done it!)

SS19 "Well, StressedStep has done alot for me, and still helps me alot and I probably drive her mental and Ive never thanked her"

I refuse to clothe the SD6!

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Submitted by stressedstep on Mon, 03/31/2014 - 4:01am

So OH pays maintenance to BM for SD6. Yet BM doesnt buy jack s**t for SD6, she expects OH to do this on top of what he pays. BM doesnt see the issue, as I work.......yup, she thinks I should pay toward HER kids.

Well, I used to buy clothes and shoes and such for SD6, but only to be kept at my home. SD6 stops at ours on night then with MIL the next night on weekends. SD6 would wear the clothes we bought to MIL, but I kinda stopped that some time ago, cos MIL was sending SD6 home to BM in the clothes I had paid for.

I do appreciate this site, its allowing me to vent out 4 years of hell, so THANKYOU!

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Submitted by stressedstep on Wed, 03/19/2014 - 7:12am

Now, SS17, is nothing short of a b*****d. Im sorry, but I totally dislike him with a passion, and more so now than ever before.

My first encounter occurred about 3 months into my relationship, where he rang me up and said "is that s**g? your the s**g, I f*****g hate you you s**g b***h"

Ok.....now to the Oldest Skid...I dont want him living under MY roof ever again...

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Submitted by stressedstep on Tue, 03/18/2014 - 9:30am

The oldest skid is SS19.

Well mannered, polite etc. They were his only good qualities. I have to admit with SS19, I have played a big influence in his life by challenging his attitude and being really quite up front with him. Ill point out here that I have NEVER slated his BM or its family down.

So, Im new here....I think Ive just hit the end of my tether now though...

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Submitted by stressedstep on Mon, 03/17/2014 - 6:43am

Hi All, lovely to meet you all.

I dont think that I can detail everything thats happened over the last (nearly) 4 years, at the moment its what has happened recently thats invading my soul.

I have a bio daughter and a SD both of the same age at 6 (16 days apart). I also have 2 SS one 19 and 1 17. Everything with the girls has been brilliant, they bicker as expected but get on and are best buddies really. Ive had so many problems regarding the sons though, not direct at me to begin with but in the end it was. Although in fairness we have all generally got on.

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