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Has accepted that maybe, some men ARE stupid, including my OH!
So yesterday he says that his boss has asked him to do nights for the next couple of days....this means a 24 hour shift today (start at 6am, finish day job at around 5 ish then an hour later start the evening shift until 6 tomorrow morning)...he will come home, take me to the hospital then go home to sleep before his next night shift......all fine, Im more than ok with it, we need the money after HIS indiscretions......anyway, we normally have SD7 on Tuesday nights for tea and a visit, then gets dropped off home for 9pm.....well, as OH is on the 24hr shift, it wont be happening....again, on
"Your not the only one who can look at both sides OH!"....and why do I NOT know about a POSSIBLE custody or CO battle for SD7!?
This is just an emptying of my mind this morning.....
I always feel guilty and I hate it!!
OH never gets home from work early, normally always around 6.30 to 7pm of a night...anyway, tonight, is sleepover night, and his hours are no different..he picks SD7 up on his way home from work.....
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HELL NEEDS TO FREEZE...Ive clocked SS17s game I think!!!!
So, I blogged earlier re SS17 thinking a hug and a cry makes everything better.....I mean seriously, how old is he again!?
Anyway, I asked OH last night if SS19 was sill staying at his OWN flat or basically living with his missus....OH said he was mostly at his missus or his nans (BMs side)....I knew that OHs ex SS was living with BM for now, as he has a use of some sort.....last we heard SS17 was also staying at SS19s flat....
I found out that actually SS17 is staying at his nans.....
So a kiss and a hug and SS17 and OH think all is well with the world!!! HELL NO!
After EVERYTHING that has happened with SS17...the destruction, the abuse, both verbal and physical and downright disgusting, the disgusting and horrid things SS17 has shouted and bawled and said and done.....SS17 approached OH on Tuesday night....just walked up to him, hugged him and started crying......
and thats it.......OH is happy, SS19 is "buzzing" and so is SS17.....
SS19 went without AND BMs partner being aggressive to OH!! lol
So, I changed tack. As SS19 hadn't turned up by 6.30 last night, I didnt cook for him at all....we were all enjoying our lovely tea and he turned up half way through it...Im not a hotel or restaurant, so he went without! And I didnt and still dont bloody care!!
SS19 not "visiting me" but im expected to cook for him!?
OH leaving for work this morning...
OH "SS19 might be popping down tonight to see me and SD7"
Me "Ok, no probs"
Paid no attention......I dont want to see him anyway so makes no odds to me.....then later this morning had a phone conversation with OH;
Me "So not sure what to do for tea tonight, reluctant to waste the beef from last night" (had a roast beef dinner, but have a fair bit of beef leftover!)
OH "Grab some sausages and pots and girls can have sausages for tea and we can have beef with mash or something"
The cocaine update.....
So, as you know, OH admitted that the cocaine wrap I found was his......and since then things have been horrific....as you can imagine...
I have accepted that he has had this problem, and I have accepted that he eventually admitted it too....he had yet to sort counselling out, but now I know why...its because if he attends the counselling, his liking for a smoke will be tackled too....
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SS19 been gossiping again!?....Yes I think he f*cking has!!
So, 2 days ago, OH tells me that SS19 is "popping down to see us" on Saturday......we will have a full house that night as we have SD7 too! No problem, fine by me....SS19 not been in touch since the turning up p*ssed n stoned incident after being out with daddy, and that was a couple of weeks ago....
Not sure OH has got it right this time e SD7..
(dated Wednesday 22/10/2014)This isnt a moan as such, but......
First off, SD7 came back on Sunday gone, and was back at school Monday.....late as per....OH is at her parents evening tonight with MIL so we will see how well she is managing to keep up. Im assuming to be honest thats he has fell behind again after all our hard work, as her lateness lately has been hitting nearly 45 minutes at its worst.