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I REALLY didn't think SS17 could get any worse....

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Submitted by stressedstep on Wed, 08/27/2014 - 8:24am

SS17 started a fight with the OH last night....actually went to punch his dad!......OH had to pin him to the floor to stop him.....SS17 threatened to stab OH and everything....apparently SS17 said some vile things, and I know SS17 has said things about my unborn baby....OH wont tell me......didnt think this could get any worse......total lost cause Sad

MIL defo competing and buttons!! lol

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Submitted by stressedstep on Wed, 08/20/2014 - 7:39am

So, yesterday I blogged that I was curious as to whether my MIL was trying to compete with me and my BD6 and her grandaughter (my SD6).....Well...after I sent the helpful email about direct debits and such things, Ive not had any reply at all. Normally, MIL replies, hell if she sends one she chases a reply on the evening!

So...Ive been away for a bit but soooo much has happened!!!

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Submitted by stressedstep on Wed, 08/13/2014 - 8:37am

So, pregnancy going well, 14 weeks today!! BD6 is ecstatic and to be fair, SD6 is excited too. She has had her moments, but overall is looking forward to a new sibling. Surprisingly, SD6 has said she wants a sister, which I did not expect at all! I knew BD6 wanted a sister though.

SS19 has all but disappeared off the face of the earth, unless he wants something on the pretence of "im popping in to visit"..yeah okay!!

So...Ive just found out Im pregnant....and SS17 seems to be rearing is ugly head again....scared...

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Submitted by stressedstep on Wed, 06/11/2014 - 3:45am

So...yes.....OH and I have been trying, really shocked as its only taken 2 months of trying and I have PCO so Im extremely lucky and privileged to be in this position. Early days though.....

So SS17 asked to move back in.......then we find out he is taking Cocaine.......

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Submitted by stressedstep on Tue, 05/06/2014 - 4:57am

Just when I thought it was safe....I thought that OH seemed to finally accept that I cant live with SS17.........

First, on Weds last week, SS17 text OH and said he might have to move out of where he is living....SS17 asked if he could live with either OH or BM....OH text back and said he would talk to him tomorrow (Thursday).....OH didnt. He didnt even talk to me aboit it, because I know that he knows I cant do it, I cant live with SS17.

Why dont the bio's get that at the end of the day...

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Submitted by stressedstep on Tue, 04/29/2014 - 2:49am

its easier for them to forgive the skids, cos they are theirs........its not that easy for the Step.

We have no sense of loyalty to the skids as we do for our bios, and it still confuses me at how my OH still cant see that.....

But then, maybe, I think he does. And it seems totally alien to him that nobody loves his kids, accepts their faults, forgives their behaviour (constantly) as much as he does.

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