Ok, so SD16 was with sugarmama until today. Last night I needed her car keys and went into her room, which is not a norm. It was disgusting and really pissed me off! So, when she came home today, I took her cell phone away until she cleaned the room from top to bottom.. She gets a gazillion text messages a day and it kept buzzin, so I went to turn it off and there was this new video msg that opened when I opened the phone. It was from her BF (500 miles away) masturbating. OMG I am so flippin grossed out I want to puke!!!! That's disgusting.

Again, this was written by a woman no longer a member, but we can ALL take something away from it!

The Care and Feeding of a Stepmother

∙ How to grow a positive relationship with your ex-husband’s new wife
and why you should strive to do just that ∙

Finally, I actually have the time and want to sit down and write a blog about the retreat. I am at work on a Saturday morning, so I have nothing BUT time! hehe First I want to thank stepwitch for hosting the retreat and being such a wonderful hostess. Next, I would like to thank Dawn and Admin for creating such a place to vent and get to know others in our situations. It has been a blessing to me in many ways.

I am really trying very hard NOT to be negative, b/c I generally am NOT a negative person, but I seem unable to shake this feeling I have. A little background....in Feb, SD16 went to live with BM. The day after DH got home from the hospital last week, SD called and wanted to come home. She said she hated it at BM's (no surprise to us). I reluctantly agreed to it out of guilt more than anything else. Dh had just been in a bad accident, and I was just so glad he was alive, that I probably would have said "yes" to just about anything. I also felt sorry for SD.