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Boundaries no way

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My DH and I put boundaries down only to have SD24 walk right over them with DH holding the door wide open. I don't want SD24 to hang out in our home while no one is going to be here during the day.  I feel that there is no way to be respected not only by my DH but, also from the skids..... 

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Rudeness is acceptable by DH

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Back to bitch again SD17 I have come to realize that I can't change her behavior and attitude towards myself family and home. DH fears rejection from the skids if he calls them out on in so he says nothing it is perhaps silence is a sense of acceptance. Their are times many times the olive branch is offered only for it to catch fire. My weakness is for acceptance which is not the way the rest of my bkids don't agree they tell me that the skids are spoiled and to stop driving myself crazy with the roller coaster.

Can't stay

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In my own home alcoholic husband invites the neighbor over for the party last Sunday DH was going to church. He is totally unstable I can't rely on him for nothing and I am done being the victim. So I shared about the sleeping arrangements that the skids said they won't come over because they have no room I bought a bunk bed and sd16 doesnt want to sleep on the top and ss15 slept on our couch last night meanwhile myself my bd20 and gd2 slept over at my parents and theseare the arraingments again. I am waiting out front to be picked up because I don't have a car.

DH Clueless

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DH only wants me to spend time with him and the skids I can't take my GD2 with us because I am disrespectful to DH and the skids I should take the high road and stay engaged with the skids even if they are going to disrespect me. I call BS!! I am not happy about this why do I have to submit myself to them>>? Blum 3

No Understanding I want out..

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DH has been communicating with BM behind my back as he made choices to go to another city that was planned from the SIL and the I am ready to do this on my own. DH is done in my book I am beyond the heart and am now thinking with my logic and self respect. Need some luck this isn't my first rodeo however it will be my last... good night..

Trying to understand

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My sd15 just celebrated her BD and I found out by DH that she was going to another city on Thursday AM with DH sister I don't consider her my sil as she and BM are still the best of friends. Which basically they are both back biting well I will leave it at that... So I didn't know that DH was taking the skds away for the weekend and oh if I would like to come along I can but, if you don't go then don't take any money out of the bank account because we don't have any.... We have already purchased tickets for sd15 to go to a concert 2 weeks away but, the sil has this all planned out..

Run

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Sad I just want to run away and just forget about all of this I am lonely and no one to go to or to be with... Everything is my fault will always be my fault and I just want to be happy I don't want to compete with SS13 or the rest of the family... I will take the lose and just be free....

Craziness

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}:) My DH is driving me crazy, this skds don't bother me as much as the DH. DH is self medicating with Alcohol and it just keeps getting worse he lectures and lectures he is self rightous in all of his glory. I have a headache and I am sick and he won't just relax he has always got to be up in other people's business.. I think I need to go to alanon. Thanks for letting me vent... There I said it now I can try to return to him with a delightful smile....

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