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Seasons's picture

Submitted by Seasons on Tue, 10/27/2015 - 11:34am

I divorced.Not sure if I could ever get married again.... self doubt aND total fear of another failed relationship

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ChiefGrownup's picture

Submitted by ChiefGrownup on Tue, 10/27/2015 - 2:28pm

At the time of my divorce I swore I would never marry again. Fast forward many years and I am now very happy and very lucky to be Mrs. DH.

Don't worry about it now. Just embrace life, look for the happy, one day you will discover the present pain is just a memory.

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Submitted by Indigo on Wed, 10/28/2015 - 12:36am

Seasons, what triggered this tonight?

I've failed. I have major, unfreakin'-believably failed before. We could spend hours trading "What was I thinking stories ..."

Oh, but I'd probably also have a few ... "Here, hold my beer ..." stories.

In my experience, most of my epic "fails" have been when I undersold myself. I settled for a nice guy who was not a good fit for my real self. I accepted a job that was 'decent' but not using my skillset. Stuff like that. Underselling myself. Settling. Accepting poor behavior from a SO because I thought subconsciously that I deserved it. Whatever.

My closest girlfriend is ill and unavailable, so I don't really have anyone IRL to bounce stuff off either.

What's up?

Seasons's picture

Submitted by Seasons on Wed, 04/04/2018 - 6:54pm

I gave myself time and fell in love with a great man. I now have 3 skids 26SS 24SD and 22SS. I went into this thinking this will be great the skids are all adults not living at home with my DH.  No more cs. It will just be me and him and the occasional holiday visits...  NOT!  So here we go now we are just down to SS22 living at home...  new DH new drama same old me...  I am back..