I figure a lot is going to go down over the next few days and as I am sitting here physically shaking- I know that I will feel better after I get this all out. 

We just got the email that SS16 would be a no-show for Christmas because someone on his basketball team tested positive. He will be in quarantine until Christmas eve and won't be able to come out.

She played this card just a weeeee bit early. We responded with, he can have a rapid test done 5 days after contact, we will need to see those results. Or we can change his flight from the 19th to the 24th and send him back Jan 2nd. Either way is fine.

2:30 pm EST. 

Since we got put on the standard docket I am about 98% certain that all that will happen is a pleading in the contempt hearing. 

Super stoked that I am leaving work early for this. Especailly since I am trying to wrap up as much as possible for year-end for both of the companies I manage. Yep. Super thrilled. 

I will update y'all after the hearing. 

I have reached out to SS16 2X now asking what he would like for Christmas- not only from DH and I but his Aunts/Uncles and Grandparents. No response.

DH actually talked to him for about 3 minutes last week.He just shrugged when DH asked him. 

I'm over it. DH can deal with presents. I will tell my family if they want to get him anything just get him a $25 visa gift card or something since he doesn't want to acknowledge us.