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Monday Blues

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Anyone else nervous about the "hell" idays?

I guess Ive got the Monday Blues.

To summate:

1. I am still a temp, but yet still making decent money. I really hate this job too. Monday Blues.

2. We got a thorough home inspection. Basically, everything wrong we knew about, plus a few additionals. Like the fact that we cant turn the furnace on because there are cracks in it, plus asbestos in one side of the house heating ducts. It will be a cold winter. Monday Blues.

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Uncle accused of abuse - help. Advice.

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I thought it would be another day like any other. 

Munchkin was sick when her mother dropped her off (looked very bloated, stomach pains, and diarreah), so we kept her home and I stayed with her. I figured she had a lot to say, and I wasnt wrong. I just did not expect to hear what I did! I really need some advice.

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Toxic Chickens coming home to roost

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Well, last night I found out that Feral Eldest SD19 is being booted out of her place and INTENDS (forshadowing) to shack up with ToxicTroll BM. BM texted DH last night, and that is when I found out the latest and greatest:

- Feral Eldest had called Auntie and told her she had TRIED calling DH, but he never picked up and did not return phone call. This actually never happened and she did not pick up his phone calls. Probably because of her Toxic Spewing a week ago.DH told Auntie this was not true. Auntie knows what this child is really like, there are no scales on her eyes.

Good things for today

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Because I always come on the board and post when things are bad - time to post something positive. Balance!

So, after Feral Eldest and her "Big Reveal" of her hatred and animosity towards me, and her "blame game" on Dad, Munchkin SD12 has been super sweet. I dont know if its her pre-teen moods, her appreciation of me and all I do, her wanting me to stay, and realizing that tattling to her mother and sister will only drive me away...I dont know, all I can do is accept it and appreciate it.

ToxicTroll losing job, money stress and other updates

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Well, after several weeks of staying home because her doctor told her she must, she is finally getting the boot from her job.

This is from her brain injury from a few years ago. She told DH that she is getting a 30k severance, and they are letting her go in November, and she is losing her insurance. The settlement is still in the works, though, so she wont be in the streets by any means, now or in the near future.

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Feral Eldest & her toxic rant last night

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So this is long, and tedious, but I just dont know what to do. 

Last night I was hanging out with Munchkin SD12, she was happy and chatting. then she brought up the topic of "who comes first in the family". She is being taught in school that "the children should ALWAYS come first". I disagreed, and told her that the family unit's  #1 responsibility is the children, but that the spouses first consideration is the relationship with the spouse. I tried defining between WANTS and NEEDS, but she didnt hear me.

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Livid

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I cant sleep, its eating me up inside. I know that there are worse things in stepworld and I know I have bigger problems than this, but I am so LIVID, my stomach is in knots. 

ToxicTrolls' sister, HomelessTroll has been booted out of the skanky apartment. She smokes like a chimney, and the room she was in smells bad. I know its for the benefit of the child, but Munchkin calls her father for EVERYTHING. Do we have this, do we have that, and now they took the steam cleaner machine, to clean the room, and I am seeing complete red right now. 

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ToxicTroll Rant

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Just a rant*** for ease-of-use-and-reading I am listing a few here:

  1. School Doesnt matter
  2. Grades
  3. Bunny#2

1. School doesnt matter

ToxicTroll has never graduated from high school. She left after 11th grade. She has been keeping Munchkin SD12 out of school here and there, for reasons such as "she has a headache" and "the grandparents are visiting (thats todays)".

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ToxicTroll and her "Brain Injury" part deux -The easy win

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After spending time in the courthouse, I found out that ToxicTroll is currently winning her workmans comp case. They offered to settle for 48K, and she turned it down.

After spending so much time researching Child Support, I need to find out if this will affect anything. Does a workmans comp payout affect her incme for child support calculations? 

Im having "child support discovery fatigue" currently so I dont feel like reading and asking about it anymore for now.

For now, I just want to think about me, DH and our future that we are building.

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