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I've gained 40+ pounds!!!

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Among all the crazy things that gave happened to me in the past 9 months, i have gained 40+ pounds!!!! That's NOT a typo!!! I was 115-120 pounds now good god! What has happened to me?!?! I am sitting here looking at me unattractive figure (to me) fdh loves the breast and arse and I'm thinking...this is adding to my unhappiness!!!

Tomorrow I'm starting to walk (can't run I have a really bad knee) but at 8am...I'm walking as far as I can!!!

Life needs to change from the inside but also from the outside!!!

Documentation tip...iPhone related

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For those of you who have an iPhone I just found a trick to documenting calls name*, time, details.
*make sure you change the name to their name and not a nick name! lol

Take a screen shot of it, send it to email and bam! It's documented!!

How do you take a screen shot?
Press the off button down at the same time press the center home button. You will hear it take the screen shot.

Then go to photos and it should be in your album. The select it, select the icon to email and bam! You will have a screen shot of the call on email!

I love my iPhone!

Happy Happy News!!!

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Biggrin FDH and I met with a new atty last night...he is awesome! He represents fathers rights. He will be filing a contempt motion on BM and is also requesting a modifcation in CS. Which getting the modification in CS is going to be a win!!!

It's never a dull moment...

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I made an important decision last night, after many sleepless hours I decided that I was going to stop all communication with BM. I'm doing this to save my own sanity and re-establish my boundaries. Boundaries which BM in the past has not understood or chooses to ignore. I am re-gaining control of my life, my life with FDH.

VENTING...about it all!!!

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To say that I am tired is an understatement. I am a zombie on the break of dawn and I am unsure if I can make it!!

By now everyone knows the drama last week and the continuation of such. Me and FDH are on the brink of what...your guess is as good as mine.

He is the more laid back, not start a fight, let's wait and see, why make waves, type of guy. Though his other side, is the I am pissed you pissed me off and I am done. (yes, from 0 to 90 in 20 seconds or less)!!!

UPDATE: BM parental alienation continued

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:jawdrop: I you have been following my blog you know what a total and complete mess BM made of things this weekend. She was the more difficult with me and fdh than she has ever been.after all the smoke cleared, FDH and I reflected and talked about everything, the texts (too many), the phone calls (too forgiving and cooperative on our part) andcwhat we can improve upon in case this happens again. Hahaha! You know it will happen again!

T minus 7 hours

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7 hours to go and I will be picking up the girls! So not looking forward to it and curious as hell as to how this whole weekend will work out. Will SDs be upset, pissed in fact or will they understand and not blame us (wishful thinking I know!)?

Well, I'm cleaning house, getting their room ready, going grocery shopping, etc. Thinking positively but prepared for the worst. This is one of those times I feel the worst for fdh here's why...

Documentation --- what has worked for you?

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I would like to know what is the best way you think to document everything with bm, biofam, step children, etc?

I have been using several different methods, one my email, two my notes on iPhone, three my calendar and forth keeping every text and voice mail (I record the voice mail using I phone voice memo and then email it to myself). BUT I am finding I need to gather all of it up in one place. I'm thinking computer is best, maybe a word doc or an excel spreadsheet or both.

Any suggestions?

DH XMIL and narcissist xwife good morning text!

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:sick: After about 2 hours of sleep last night I am still reeling from all the crazy bm and bm fam texts last night. So, to make matters worse now xmil is texting fdh!!!

Xmil:I am watching closely
how you and your girlfriend are treating the girls
you are hurting them seriously
they tell us everything
shame on u
she has changed you
even dh wrk guys who come here tell me she runs the show
wake up

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