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Submitted by zenjetset on Thu, 08/05/2010 - 1:31pm

Has anyone heard of a summer camp / after care program that does keep attendance records? BM has skids registered in an aftercare program the transport the kids from school to the aftercare location that does that maintain attendance records!!! This is very surprising to me. We are trying to determine how many days skids have attended summer camp and are unable to without attendance records. The policy is you only pay for the days you use.

It's NOT over!

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Submitted by zenjetset on Fri, 07/30/2010 - 12:20pm

Smile Well, good news my fiancé (yes he still is my fiancé) and I worked things out! After a very serious heart to heart conversation about "our" relationship vs that of the skids and x. I'm the happiest I have been in a long time. He really listened to me and has made the changes I asked. He and I realize we have made some mistakes by allowing the skids and x issues to consume our love and everyday interactions.

It's over for now or forever

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Submitted by zenjetset on Sun, 07/25/2010 - 8:42pm

I just broke up with my fiancé over the fact that while in the car he stood on the lawn talking to his x!!!! There's more to it than that but right I dont t have the energy to get into it. He continues to put her first even thou he knows she is a total manipulator which is what she was doing hen they were standing there on the lawn. I'm just soooooooooo over it!!!! I rather be alone. I desk with his kids the x and I have my own to contend with!!!! I just can't anymore or....did I over react?!?!!

Skids weekend with us after choking incident!!!

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Submitted by zenjetset on Fri, 07/23/2010 - 2:48pm

:O 3 hours until my fiancé and I pick up the skids and I'm not at all interested in seeing them. It's the first weekend since the choking incident and the entire week has been filled with text messages and voice message from BM and family. I know the skids are tainted by all of their poison and it's going to be a long long weekend. I've always looked forward to seeing them and spending time with them, now everything feels different. I'm trying to get over this feeling, but can't seem to shake it.

My fiance x and x-mother in law

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Submitted by zenjetset on Wed, 07/21/2010 - 8:22pm

I got a text from the x-mother in law and a voice message telling me and him that i was cuban and therefore a jealous and a woman who "controls" everything. Thought it was funny, but then I was thinking why the "f" am I dealing with these stupid people who feel that they can call and text and leave message to people they don't know.

What is this you are taking liberties with me? I don't think so...

Does anyone else deal with this crap? I have only been in this relationship for 9 months I don;t think I need this type of commincatiion and degradtion.

BM vs BF

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Submitted by zenjetset on Wed, 07/21/2010 - 6:41pm

Do you think that a BM is worse than a BF (bio-father) in respect to their ability to separate emotional from reality. I have found that BM tend to want and want and want, while BF tend to give and give and give. This is not fair nor equal treatment, typically BF is in far worse condition that BM. BM can usually control finances and other situation that reduce stress on the relationship with kids.

What is your opinion or take on this? Very interested...

SD11 chokes SD6 - What do I do?

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Submitted by zenjetset on Wed, 07/21/2010 - 4:13pm

On Tuesday of last week, my two SDs where in the back of the vehicle, fighting over a hat. SD11 took SD6 hat and tore it apart, she started to scream and cry. I stopped the vehicle and took SD11 hat off her head and threw it in the trash. Got back in the car and started driving. SD11 went into a complete RAGE. Screaming and yelling, kicking the back of the seat and hitting her fist on the ceiling of the car. Then, as if that wasn't out of control...she CHOKE SD6 with such angry and force that SD6 had marks on her neck after 15 minutes.

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