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CS Abatement!!

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Submitted by spittenfire on Wed, 04/23/2014 - 2:34pm

Well the judge approved the CS abatement over BM's lawyers objection....and then the judge granted her lawyers motion to withdrawl. So now she has not lawyer and we dont have to pay her CS. Luckily we took the chance he would rule this way and did not send in the april payment. He did make it effective April 1st. Finally it feels like the tide is turning in my DH direction. Smile

Straight A's from D and F's in 3 weeks!! What!!

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Submitted by spittenfire on Fri, 04/18/2014 - 5:44pm

So SS has been with us under the safety plan for 3 weeks! He started a new "quarter" the week we got him. His last grade report had 2 D's a F and the rest low B's......His midterm came home and low and behold straight A's!! Haha! Love it, just pray now we can keep him with us for the remaining 4 weeks of school!

A 3rd school in 2 months.....yeah thats a GREAT idea!

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Submitted by spittenfire on Fri, 04/18/2014 - 8:16am

So BM "has her own place now" so she texted DH last night that she will be getting SS back on Monday. Then she would let him know how ss would be getting back and forth to practices because BM doesnt have a license. Then she texts DH that he will be going to "so and so" christian academy for an interview and she would be covering tuition?? Really how dumbass, you dont have a job and now you think you are going to be able to maintain your own household and pay for a private school, and once again refuse to get DH input even though he has joint legal custody.

BM Boyfriend acts like "Supertrash" in the courthouse!!

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Submitted by spittenfire on Wed, 04/16/2014 - 11:32am

Well the OFP hearing for SS was continued, the judge had to recuse himself as he previously represented the boyfriend years ago as counsel. The GAL recommended we get a lawyer for this as they are really fighting it, even trying to get her thrown off the case because she is the GAL for the custody modification case. Not sure how that is a conflict but they are arguing it.

So we were hotlined.....By BM i am sure

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Submitted by spittenfire on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 9:09am

Well I guess the retaliation of trying to make sure someone that is with an abuser is safe it that you get hotlined. Yep watching The Voice last night and get a knock on the door. It is a caseworker from the Childrens division. We invited her in thinking finally someone was doing a home visit with us since SS has been placed with us for his BMs safety plan. Nope.....she wanted to discuss a report that was made against us. :jawdrop:

Do We Pay Child Support

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Submitted by spittenfire on Mon, 04/14/2014 - 9:24am

So we have SS full time right now because BM signed a Safety Plan. He is to live with us until BM can find her own housing for herself and stepson and even then we do not know how long DFS will require her to maintain the household before they say it is ok for SS to go back to live with his BM. That is because her Boyfreind assaulted her and hit SS in process and that was the plan put in place by DFS to keep SS safe. Well this weekend BM shows up at SS field day for baseball and is upset and stating she is scared of Boyfriend and she is now 8 weeks pregnant. etc etc.

What Do we do at Restraining Order Hearing???

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Submitted by spittenfire on Wed, 04/09/2014 - 2:32pm

So DH go a restraining order against BM's boyfriend. The hearing is next wednesday. SS has a GAL appointed. So does anyone know what DH as the petitioner for protected child is supposed to do? We really can not afford a lawyer for this as we have a lawyer for a child modification case that is going on in a different county. Are we supposed to supenoa the witness that interviewed SS regarding boyfriend hitting him in the face? Anyone have experience with this?

DH is refusing BM demand for overnight

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Submitted by spittenfire on Fri, 04/04/2014 - 6:41pm

So my DH has SS as BM signed a safety plan allowing SS to stay w/DH while she secures her own housing for herself and SS. And BM visits w/SS are to be as decided between DH and BM. So this week BM with her Father met DH for a visit with the understanding her Dad would bring him home (BM has no license) and that her SO should not be anywhere around SS (RO for Abuse of SS which she denies now). So SS shows up at the house 45 min early and BM was not with them. Apparently they Dropped BM off at the top of SO road.

Talk me off the ledge!!

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Submitted by spittenfire on Wed, 04/02/2014 - 8:30am

So BM signed a safety plan for SS to live with DH till she could find her own Residence for her and SS to live, or until the assault charges (that she filed mind you) are proven false. RO is in place against BM's BF for SS and now BF is texting and harrassing my DH......and BM is saying that she thinks the accusations are false until she gets to talk to her son.....etc etc. She told DH that she believes he is trying to get SS to lie for DH benifit in the custody case set for July.

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