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Well BM Did it....

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She picked SS up from the summer camp that DH had sent him to. She was still under a safety plan by DFS but since she no longer lives with abusive ex they have no recourse. They wont do anything. Now BM is refusing to work with DH on his 6 weeks of Summer vactaion he is supposed to get because he "didnt notify her by the 15th of May" Because he was living with us for the last 60+ days dumbass!! Up until the day she picked him up we did not even know where she was living! Each time DH picked her up to take her and SS somewhere for visitation she was walking alongside the road!

Will DFS just stop a Safety Plan w/no kind of reintergration?

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So BM just text DH stating that she will be picking SS up from his summer camp that is 4 days long and taking him home with her. No call to us from DFS or nothing. I would think since he has been in our care for 2 months and she was found guilty of Failure to Protect there should be some kind of reintergration esp since she doesnt have a job, a car, or even her own place that we are aware of?!? This crap if freaking frustrating when she starts spouting this shit because even though every other time she has said this it still stresses us the freak out!

BM Not Eligible for Public Defender!! Tehe

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So BM has a felony forgery charge against her right now (forged DH signature on a fianacial liability form at SS dentist office). Her lawyer that she had previously hired to represent her on all her cases (1 custody modification, 2 felonies, 3 misdemeanors, 3 traffic tickets) quit on her. Well her Forgery case is set for a hearing tomorrow so we checked online to see if it has been continued....she is the queen of having cases continued.....and there is a filing from the state public defenders office stating that she is not eligible for public defender services! hehe......wonder why?

Need advice for my DD11 Please.....

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My DD11 has been my more "troublesome" child. Lately she has been more frequently lying about the most mundane things even. And even if you have her red handed she will continue to insist she is not lying and start crying and become hysterical. Everything with her is an argument....and I mean everything!! If i ask her to do the dishes immediate "But I did them" etc. I have noticed over the last couple of weeks she becomes so angry with her sister and my SS.

20 Days to Pay the GAL Fees. if not Judge may strike motions!!

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So the GAL filed a motion to compel payment of GAL fees against BM. Our lawyer said that if she fails to pay the fees in 20 days the judge could strike BM's motion making the motion to modify uncontested!! Then he could sign the order to modify custody according to the motion and parenting plan we already filed and avoid the court date in July!! God could we get that lucky???? Please????

BM Beat downs/ Bad Dreams/ No news from CPS

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So yesterday BM calls from a number we have never seen. I answered as DH was getting SS ready for Baseball practice. BM asks is dh and SS are at the ball field. I told her no that they will be leaving shortly that practice isnt till 7....it is 6 at this time. She then starts crying and going on about how she was walking from her apartment to the ball field and her "ex" bf drove by and beat the crap out of her. She said she got a RO against him the prior day and was hoping SS was at ballfield so she could get him on violating both RO's.

What happens now!? DFS Charges Founded

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So the DFS found that the charges of Child Neglect: Failure to protect were FOUNDED!! Now it states that her name is being put on the Child Abuse and Neglect Registry. So what does that mean for us. We still have SS under the safety plan she signed but we have no idea what happens now that the charges are in fact founded? Anyone with this type of experience??

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