A 3rd school in 2 months.....yeah thats a GREAT idea!
So BM "has her own place now" so she texted DH last night that she will be getting SS back on Monday. Then she would let him know how ss would be getting back and forth to practices because BM doesnt have a license. Then she texts DH that he will be going to "so and so" christian academy for an interview and she would be covering tuition?? Really how dumbass, you dont have a job and now you think you are going to be able to maintain your own household and pay for a private school, and once again refuse to get DH input even though he has joint legal custody. Not to mention this will be the 3rd move of schools in 2 months if she accomplishes it. I really hope the DFS worker will not let her do this. SS is doing so well. His Prog 3 grades he had 2 F's and a D. In the 3 weeks we have had him since the safety plan went into effect he is up to straight A's!! The change has been that dramatic!
Pray that DFS shuts the bitch down.
And Luchay!! Thank you, I have not stressed over this latest bit of "information". I look at it for what it is...... dog shit...... its not gonna kill me so no need to get all anxious and worry about it. Deep breath keeep calm and on Monday if BM tries to pick up SS without DFS notifying us the safety plan is done then police will be called.
If we are notified that the safety plan calls for us to return SS to BM then that is what we will have to do, and then we will see her at trial in July when she can explain to the Judge why all of her actions were in the best interest of SS and let her convince him that she can provide a stable loving environment.
I think I have finally learned to help from afar. And offer support but to keep my emotions out of it 
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The safety plan states that
The safety plan states that it must be a residence for her and SS alone. No boyfriend, and yes she is still with him, but supposedly has "her own place". If DFS discontinues the safety plan we have no choice but to give him back as she is the current residential parent. We have tried emergency hearings 2 seperate times through the family law judge and he refuses to change custody through an emergency hearing, he said DFS is the safety net for a child in danger. He stated that knowing DFS closed the first case for some reason that we were not told, something about a caseworker being fired. Then a month later boyfriend beats up BM and backhands SS in the meantime. It is a awful twisted situation.....times like this I dont understand why you cant sue a judge.
I absolutley agree with you.
I absolutley agree with you. We have done everything with in our control to keep him safe. We still have a r/o agianst the boyfriend right now and will be hiring an attorney to take that over. I honestly do not see how they can deny us the restraining order. We have statements BM made to the principle that prompted the entire investigation. DFS interviewed SS as well as the school counselor and his statement never change about what occured. His mom was being choked by Supertrash and he tried to pull his mom away and Supertrash backhanded him. Then we have a incident report that is dated the day prior to it all where BM told a deputy sheriff her boyfriend had assaulted her and she was scared of him and she wanted to file charges. The report notes BM had a bruise on her forehead and marks around her neck. So it may be lengthy and drawn out but I believe we will eventually win a full protection order. BM has told the boyfriend that it is all lies fed to SS by DH. But he will see once testimony came out that it was all brought to light by her telling the school principal that SS mayby distraught as he witnessed a really bad fight between her and Supertrash. When all that comes out.....I have a feeling karma may be barreling around the corner for her.