Ok so DFS is going to "refer" the case to the juvinille courts, but apparntly cant remove SS from BM care because of BF hitting SS. :?
BM told DFS she was going to get a RO against her BF (of course she will say anything to make DFS go away) But then last pm SS got to stay the night and low and behold BM calls from her BF house and puts her BF daughter on the line to tell SS how much she misses him :sick:

Needless to stay DH is fed up with noone protecting SS so he went and filed assault charges against BF for SS, but come to find out BM had already filed them?? So apparently she doesnt think it is a problem to file assault charges on her BF and then go back to said BF. So DH talked to prosecutor and told them that under no circumstances is he to drop the assault charges for SS, even if BM says its ok. Prosecutor agreed. If BM wants to drop the assault charges against herself thats fine but not for SS. So then DH goes to the county court and obtained a Restraining order for SS against BF! So BM cannot take SS back to her BF house. We are at least grateful that hopefully this will keep ss away from the abusive BF.

So now we have restraining orders in 1 county as well as assualt charge, then a custody dispute in a second county, and DFS case in a 3rd county! Absolutley freaking nuts and a judicial jurisdiction nightmare! All because a freaking family court judge refused to hear an emergency custody hearing. So who the hell knows what is going to happen now!