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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Wed, 03/11/2020 - 7:12am

BM's friend that feeds us info contacted me again last night. Apparently BM is going to have SS get on the stand to say he is scared of his father and that is why he hasn't come out the last 3 times. (For those who don't know we are out of state so this is over the last year)

Anyway, I texted our attorney and he said that if he did that it would be laughable. We have a photo album with over 1,000 pictures of him at our house as happy as can be. He has never expressed fear to the GAL or the judge durring any of thier talks. 

Hidden Income...

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Mon, 03/09/2020 - 10:51am

BM's friend that feeds us info just messaged me. She let me know that BM's employer is now writing her paychecks to BM's boyfriend. 

I would venture to guess this happened after we surprised her in court last time calling her out and showing her Facebook pictures of her working for the weed dispensary. She claimed in court that she was just a volunteer there- if you didn't remember. 

"Pretending" before court

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Wed, 03/04/2020 - 8:24am

It blows my mind that we are going to court in 9 days and BM won't even pretend for court. She still won't respond to DH about spring break transportation, DH is blocked from SS's phone. We found out that he got some award in band from the school facebook page- Like she won't even PRETEND to go by the CO the week before court. 

My brain just can't process that she has that much audacity. That she really does believe that she can do no wrong and there are no consequences for her. God- I just pray that the judge is over her crap once and for all. 

Might need a go-fund me set up

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Thu, 02/27/2020 - 8:44am

Just spent almost $1,500 plane tickets this morning. I swear to DOG that if she isn't found guilty of contempt in 2 weeks I will need a bail money fund set up. 

I have a lot of faith after talking to our lawyer yesterday. DH does too. I am just irritated that it cost that much which is cutting into our summer vacation- finally a honeymoon fund that we have going right now. Grrrr... If she is guilty it will all be worth it.

FINALLY Good Court news

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Wed, 02/26/2020 - 10:32am

This was the "are you guilty or not hearing" for contempt- so glad we didn’t go.

 

Judge was PISSED at BM's attorney for writing the order wrong. Ours will submit his order that we helped write today and that will be the true order.

 

We have to be out there for the actual hearing on March 13th. There will be testimony. BM's Lawyer tried to put SS on the stand to say he didn’t want to go, but Our Lawyer told the judge and BM's attorney that it didn’t matter what SS wanted, there was an order and BM violated it. The JUDGE AGREED!

 

**UPDATE** Animal killer, Ratchet and BF

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Tue, 02/25/2020 - 8:39am

ChzyBob20  had the best name for them!

All three have been arrested. My employee has done the line up on each of them and they are awaiting arraignment. He is meeting with a victim's advocacy group to get some help today. I am hoping to find out their names to look up all the charges later today when he is back to work. 

Crazy BM situation with a co-worker

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Mon, 02/24/2020 - 11:48am

We just hired a new guy last week. I knew a little about him, he has 7 kids! He has custody of an ex-stepson to keep him out of foster care. -- I thought to myself, wow! He has a lot on his plate, but good for him.

Well, over the weekend in our groupchat he sent a bunch of pictures of his house. He had been robbed and the house torn to pieces. His windows all smashed, furniture, took a hammer to his glass top stove. Found out this morning that they even killed his cat. 

Next Week's Hearing

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Mon, 02/17/2020 - 10:07am

Y'all... I am stressing. I still get full on pysical reactions from the stress of this crap. Shaking uncontrolably when ANYTHING happens. 

DH had to sign his affidavit for court this weekend. No big deal, we know what it is, just listing all the contempt stuff. We also sent to the lawyer the journal for phone calls that he has been keeping and text screen shot to/From Ss and BM2. None of this info is new or anything. I hate that this "case" has to much power over me. 

My Bio's school had a fire

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Mon, 02/10/2020 - 9:54am

This sucks on so many levels. The school board's plan is to move the kids to another middle school in the district and rotate days. So current school kids will go to school Mon/Wed./Fri. My kids go to school Tues/Thurs/Sat. -- We don't know how sports are going to work. I am thanking God right now that I now have a long distance parenting plan because I would feel awful if my kids weren't able to see their dad (they used to go see him 2x a month but he was almost 4 hours away- so it was kind of an ordeal). 

Beyond your lawyer

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Thu, 02/06/2020 - 8:39am

Has anyone every gone beyond their attorney in this crazy fight? I found a group called The Fatherless Generation. They help reunite kids with parents where the mother cut ties with the father and they were never allowed in the child's life. They are all about redefining "deadbeat dad's". There was a story where they helped another Navy vet who's story sounds like a toned down version of ours. I sent them a message, they told me they can help and to call. I have left a message.

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