indeed. My jaw hits the ground reading your posts at that woman's audacity. I genuninely am rooting for your guys so hard and would love to be a fly on the wall if she gets what is due to her for all her regoshdamndiculous behavior. I would love a contempt of court jail sentence for her. 

Unfortunately she will continue to feel she can do whatever she pleases until she faces consequences. She's been getting away with this alienating for a while now and has that air of confidence that she can't be stopped. For all of you involved I hope the judge hands her @ss to her and makes it clear that what she is doing is abuse and will not be tolerated. I'd document and screen shot all that you stated to show the judge just how conniving this woman is.

if she thinks because she has abused this kid with alienation for so long, she is confident he will "give his choice" and that will be enough to prevent him from being made to come see dad. Regardless, I really hope this judge throws the book at this POS woman.

JustMakingTheBest~ I was thinking that I'd keep all of this paperwork of the back & forth with court and when/if SS shows his @ss I'd give him copies of all the court documents and alienating that his mother caused. I'm not sure if that would do much for him but least there is proof that his mother is a manipulative POS.

I mean, she's never actually faced a consequence from court. Are we really that surprised? She probably sees herself as damn near invincible.

Your BM is very similar to Satan.  Your life is a case study of what would have happened to Killjoy if our courts were like yours.

The way these BMs behave is astouding.

DH got custody for a multitude of reasons and Truancy was one of them.  Before DH even filed for custody, Satan was getting Truancy Warning letters from the school, and withholding them from DH.

Then DH filed for custody when Killjoy was in 2nd grade.

Satan continued to keep Killjoy home from school.  She went to the office and tried to stop DH's access to the records.  She badmouthed him, played the victim.

The GAL report came out the day before a Status hearing.  The report in total favor of DH, partly because Truancy, but also so much more.

Guess who missed school the very next day, the same day as the Status hearing?  Excuse:  "Missed Bus."  (In first and second grade, it was Killjoy's responsibility to wake up to an alarm, get dressed and feed herself breakfast, and go outside alone for the bus, while Satan slept in.  Imagine waking up at noon daily with no idea if your child got in the car with a serial killer.)

Six months later, Trial.  Two more weeks of missed school.  20 days total for 2nd grade alone.

At Trial, Satan asked for a probationary period of continued custody, promising no more missed school.

Judge was like WTF.  No.  You a$shole.  You were warned.  You had plenty of time.

Satan was STUNNED that she lost custody.  What?...Consequences?...What?... Oh, you were serious?  What?

Tip of the iceberg.  It's truly amazing.

Then?

It was all Killjoy's fault Satan lost custody, because she missed the bus.  This didn't excuse her from the housekeeping duties, she had to do double duties on Satan's weekends.  And she had to make accusations against us for abuse.  And on and on.

3rd grade kids had a composition book to bring home everyday, to write notes to their parents and have their parents write back.

You can imagine the crap.  It didn't take long before we had to cease that.  A parent using their child's schoolwork for PAS and sympathy.  As if the teacher would see that and call the judge.  Insane.

Stealing her schoolwork from her bookbag so she had missing assignments.  And then bringing them to the GAL as proof.  Yeah, Satan, the assignment is missing AND YOU HAVE IT.

So much more...

She is her own worst enemy, and her arrogance will bite her in the ass.