SS arrives tomorrow for a little over 3 weeks. He is a good kid, he and my son are like 2 peas in a pod and get along together so well! The boys fight with my daughter- like siblings do... That isn't really my issue. I guess knowing that once we take him to the geneticist BM is going to lose her mind. She was such a ranting and raving B when we took him for a physical over spring break. I just know that after this visit all of the calm will be over. We will be back in court. We still owe the lawyer $5k from the last go 'round. 

I hate how much the court battles consume your life. It got to the point where that was all DH and I talked about for like a month. It is so straining and stressful. We have been let down by the system so many times at this point. It doesn't matter what we do, how great we are, that we can give SS a great life and wonderful experiences.... we are only worth 36 days a year to the court. 

BM is currently pissed that alimony stopped, and CS reduced but not enough to actually get her lawyer to respond to anything regarding visitation. I think DH would agree to more CS if he could get more visitation- you know, pay for the time with the kid. I am worried she isn't actually going to put him on a plane though. She is bitter like that and won't respond to DH because he won't discuss money. He just keeps telling her that his lawyer is still awaiting the last 3 years of tax returns from her. 

Who knows... maybe things will get resolved out of court instead of going back since we will have a strong case for Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy and her lies all brought out. I mean, we would be happy with standard out of state visitation. Custody would be better but at least give us enough time to make an impact on his life. Welfare mommy who refuses to work isn't a fantastic role model for a kid. It would be nice if a small town kansas judge would see it that way...