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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Wed, 10/09/2019 - 8:57am

DH is supposed to be called for SS14's parent teacher conferences that are "student lead" tomorrow at 10 am. BM is supposedly going to be present. 

Taking bets on SS showing up?

BM allowing it once she gets there?

SS even talking?

 

This is such a shit show... 

DH text to me: "I don't matter to her and she wants me to not matter to him"

me: "You matter, my love. If you didn't, she wouldn't be so afraid to lose him to you. This is all really her insecurities in her ability to be the favored parent in SS's eyes"

 

VENT

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Mon, 10/07/2019 - 7:24am

DH has his facetime make up call with SS14 last night. SS didn't answer.

A few minutes later he texts DH and says "no service". DH asked where he was and when would he be home for the call since DH hasn't spoken to him in 3 weeks due not SS not answering his court ordered calls. SS replies with:

"It's my grandpa's birthday where the hell do you think I'm at"

DH: "Why are you talking to me like that? I am your father stop disrespecting me when you talk to me"

SS: "I don't have time for this bye"

I failed at disengagement again

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Fri, 10/04/2019 - 7:27am

Hi, my name is justmakingthebest, and I am an engager. It has been less than 24 hrs since I last engaged with SS drama.

 

The school sent me SS's physical. I lost my shit. Again.

I told the spec. ed teacher everything that was going on. I agreed to leave the 504 alone because by doing so his fake "dyslexia" diagnosis means he gets a reading tutuor/OT to help get him to grade level since he is 4 yrs behind. 

Moving

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Wed, 10/02/2019 - 7:43am

DH is Navy and we will either retire if he doesn't make rank (24 yrs in)  or be moving in 3 years. Either way, I have no desire to stay in our current location.

Another Blog got me thinking

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Mon, 09/30/2019 - 6:50am

Advice.only2 mentioned something about turning all of the court docs into a book for skids.

Can you imagine if we published a book. We would have to summarize to one chapter each, but it could be like a ghost stories book. A collection of short stories to help other future SM's. It would be terrifying for most to read, because what many of us go through "doesn't really happen" or no one can believe it! But imagine throwing in case numbers and the whole 9! 

A cautionary tale for SM's to be. It Should/could be a top bridal registry seller! *ROFL*

Trying really hard to not get consumed in SS drama

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Thu, 09/19/2019 - 12:10pm

Y'all. We finally got the paperwork from our attorney for this damn Journal Entry to "solidify" visitation with SS since BM's attorney ONCE AGAIN isn't doing his job. I swear to DOG I am going to file a complaint with the bar. 

Just reading the order has me pissed off 6 ways to sunday. Just seeing some of the things in that order again, which because the judge in podunk hasn't got a set of balls and won't do his actual job and hear a case, it makes me want to vomit. 

Contempt again...

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Tue, 09/03/2019 - 11:15am

Welp. Here we go again.

DH and I are not flying out for this or anything but we told the lawyer to file. We can be present via teleconference like we have done in the past.

BM will not respond about holiday time, still. No word on the 5 weeks of make up time. She will not respond to anything- not even if she got SS his military ID . She will not let DH have a 1st day of school picture. NOTHING.

She has not turned in her income or bank statements. She is still lying about her job. 

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