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Do wonders never cease and update on message from former sd?

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So if anyone read my blog yesterday you will know I was out of sorts after finding a message my former sd sent me about 5 months ago following a conversation she had with my current sil. She repeated alot of lies and just filth from my sil about my dh and then went on the say how my whole life was disgusting, compared it to sodom and gomorrah, and that I turned her stomach. She is 34. From my first marriage and I hadnt spoke to her in 13 years. So, wow.

Feeling out of sorts today-could use some support...

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I would like your all's honest opinions please. I believe i have shared this info on here before, but perhaps not for a long time. I was married previously for 7 years to an older man who had a daughter. I was 21 when we got married, he was 36, and she was 14. Needless to say I was extremely naive, she was a victim of PAS (before anyone knew what it was) so it was not particularly pretty.

I swear my dh is bipolar!

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Ha! I think I actually entitled a past blog the same thing. Sorry just venting. He was in such an awesome mood last week. He was fired up about going on a mission trip for Church, really becoming strong in his faith, working out daily-laughing all the time. So nice to see and this week he's an ass. Granted he is out of his meds (he gets them thru the mail and they have not yet arrived) so I guess he is not feeling quite up to par. I also think he is having tons of anxiety about sil's hearing on Friday.

Sil goes to court on Friday

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Yeah! I will be praying for a just outcome. Anywho, my nasty mil calls my dh yesterday and starts actually trying to guilt him-"do you really want your sister to go to jail". Dh, once again, tried to explain to her that this is not a civil suit-he is not suing sil-all he did was report that someone had opened credit cards in his name. He did this in order to protect his credit. That's it. The state police investigated, gathered the evidence, and the prosecutor pursued it. It doesnt matter they still blame him.

teen girl issues-not step related

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I actually blogged about this a while back. There is a girl that moved to our area over the summer. Her and my dd15 hit it off right away and spent a couple of months hanging out-problem free. Then school started and things seemed to go downhill. Both the girl and her mother would say insulting things to my dd15-that genuinely had her upset-girl has a trouled history-including a suicide attempt and she was alrady sexually active with her bf.

I think my fil is having a really hard time...

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So last week we had Facebook postings of "missing that special someone" "I miss you son". " I hope he's having a good life with his family" to this weekends confrontational voicemail " so you are just throwing ss away" to today's latest Facebook post. It's one f those little sayings about dads that you can share. Some sort of nonsense of share if you had/ have a hardworking dad who did his best no matter how bad or good you were, blah, blah- the strange thing is fil's dad died like 45 years ago and no one questions that man was a total shitbag. Hardcore alcoholic.

What happened to play?

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I was thinking last night of how I grew up. I had awesome parents and an intact family. However my parents were clearly in charge and their lives did not revolve around me. They went out on the weekends with their friends and left me and my brother with a babysitter. My brother and I amused ourselves. We did plenty of scheduled family fun time, but I also remember long lazy days of just playing and just occassionally checking in with mom and dad during the day. I was in maybe two extracurriculars my whole childhood up until middle school. Life seemed easy, relaxed.

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