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yay! SIL accepted plea agreement....
For the last 18 months or so we have been awaiting the legal consequences of my sil stealing dh's identify, forging his name, and opening credit cards in his name. This whole incident caused a MAJOR split in dh's family with the whole entire family (minus like 2 cousins) siding with my sil. My inlaws apparently feel it was ok for sil to steal, lie, and rack up 14 felonies, my dh however was in the wrong for reporting to the police that he had credit cards fraudulently opened (the only way we could clear our credit short of just paying off the debts she created).
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help me plan beach vacation
I am from the Midwest and this is the time of the year that I start planning my beach vaca for summer. We've done panama city and surrounding areas, all up and down the outer banks and are looking for somewhere new. Any recommendations? Currently looking at Gulf Shores, Siesta Key, and Clearwater area.
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ugh-i so hate my ss15 and it's bringing me down
So I thought that with ss15 moving out 18 months ago that eventually he'd just be a nonissue for me-however it seems I keep running across him in some manner or another and its making me feel as if I hate him more. We did have a real quiet time-in which he was nonissue when he was in juvenile detention, but he got out at the beginning of November.
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continued "harassment"
It has been several months since I have posted. Largely because nothing major is happening-for those that recall my story. My ss15 went to detention from Sept-Nov. He was expelled from our local school. Dh has had no contact with him. We only found out that he was out due to my fake profile on facebook and ability to access his account. Didn't even know for sure where he was living or what was going on.
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I feel like a miserable person sometimes-
So this is off topic, but many of you may remember that dh is disabled (ddd, tbi, PTSD) . He gets paid a nice sum to sit at home through his various pensions, VA, etc.
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OMG-so I know what ss15 did...
So this is all so mind blowing-it should not be-but still it is.
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Omg- just saw my skid15 handcuffed and shackled...
Talk about being in the right place at the right time. We have a very small county. I'm over at the courthouse several times a month due to work puposes as part of our drug court. So today I head over there and as I am walking up the 3 flights of stairs I look up and see someone who looks like my mil sitting on the bench by the courtroom. I go into my meeting, but curiosity gets the best of me and I go out to get a drink at the water fountain. Yep, I confirm its her. I see she's sitting with two other people but I didn't get a good look.
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I dont even know what I should tell my dh...Just sad for him..and so pissed at ss...
So most of you know that ss15 resides with my mil. He last lived with us-last year from February to June. He was caught stealing my panties, my daughters panties during this time. He has a hx of drug use, is incredibly blatantly oppositional, has a hx of aggression, has made plans to murder my ds, and has in the past crawled up next to my dd15 while she was asleep and "spooned" her on at least 2 different occasions. So essentially it just got to the point in which it no longer felt safe for the other children for him to reside here.
Why is making these kids accountable so hard for some people?
I don't get it-I really, really don't. To some extent, I understand the whole "Disney dad" as in let's do fun things eoweekend and let me buy you lots of stuff. These parents have limited time with their kids so they want to cram all this fun stuff into their time. It's not right, but I sort of get the motivation behind it.
moped issue revisited-how do we make this work?
In a previous blog I talked about how ss15-after approximately 8 months of not speaking to dh-and after saying some really nasty things to him-calls him up and asks him to buy him a moped. Dh said no, he wouldn't buy one, but hey we've got an extra one right here. Dh and I talked about it some and he essentially said he felt like ss called only because he wanted something (well duh)and then he proceeded to talk about where we were going to sell our extra moped (which was the original deal between dh and I anyway).
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