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My Inlaws are holding our rv hostage...
So this is part vent part need for advice. Back in 2010 we stored our rv on my mil or dh's grandpas property. We are unsure which as their property lines butt up and we don't know exactly whose property it is on. Apparently this was during better times when dh and Inlaws got along ok. We had sold our truck. The plan was whe dh got fully released from the army- that fil would bring it back or take it to another location for us to park it.
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Well, I tried to not let them take up so much space in my head, but foiled again!!!
Let me say that dh has been an ass all weekend. Just grouchy, Unpleasant, not particularly nice to me. Saturday morning- we had made a trip to walmart and the subject of his parents came up. Somehow he decided I was not totally blameless in the fact that they have been asses to me for years. I admit I freaked a little. Really, dh, what have I done to them? Please tell me and I will give it so e significant thought and then if I do share blame will gladly admit it. But, nada, he couldn't actually come up with anything.
The Inlaws and skid are getting to me....
Trying to get them out of my head but dammit they keep popping up. Started a few eeks ago when my fil randomly messages dh saying nasty things to him, telling him to tell me hateful things, and then getting on my Facebook photos of my girls saying how much he loved them and missed them. This started a little Facebook exchange between he and I which actually felt pretty good- considering it was the first time in 13 years I've stood up to this shit.
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Messages from my fil...
So I've not spoke to this man in 18 months- at least- it maybe closer to 2 years. Dh has not spoke to him but once in 10 months. S he randomly messages my dh on Facebook sat nite. Tells him to give ME a message, about staying out of sil's business and its a joke if I think I've ev helped anyone in that family. He then called my dh a liar, said sme other nonsense, etc. dh told him he didn't wish to speak to him a coup,e of times- fil said dh was just too ashamed to talk to him. Smh over that one. Anywho, dh simply blocked him then.
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Do you ever get really pissed off on dh's behalf?
I'm having one of those days. So my mil and dh dont really speak anymore. They spoke briefly about a month ago as he needed some info from her for his passport application. She took that opportunity to try and guilt him once again for trying to send his sister to jail and also told him she needed his id to take ss to a psychiatrist. So I guess she called up this morning wanting the id. So he was agreeable-he made a copy of it and she came over, with ss, to pick it up.
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Omg-an iPad?
So my dd comes home today and tells me that ss brought an iPad to school today. She overheard him tell someone that my mil got it for him for his bday. I am kind of outraged. I know I shouldn't care- but the only class this kid is passing is gym. He failed pretty much every class all year.. He essentially will have to repeat his freshman year of high school. He has been suspended a number of times. He has been referred to the probation department for possessing marijuana paraphinilia and apparently smoking it on the school bus.
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SS is 15 today!! Only 3 more years until there is no legal responsbility to this psychopath!!
Is it wrong of me to celebrate this?
I feel so sorry for so many of you that are just starting on this stepjourney-so glad I only have 3 more years. And, yes, I know that even as adults they can continue to be pesky influences-but dh does not see ss now and while I know that things can change-I also know that ss will NEVER set foot in my home again-NO MATTER WHAT.
If dh chooses and ss once again decides he has a father then they can have a relationship elsewhere on their own terms. Just dont involve me or mine in it. Thank you very much.
I have been freaking out lately and think I am going a little crazy!
Ok-ss will be 15 in two days-he has not stepped foot in our house since june of last year. He lived with us for 4 months-prior to that he had not lived with us since 2007. Big gaps of time in which no visits occurred as dh was in Iraq or various spots due to military service and was not living with us.
Great facebook post by ssstb15...
So this past week I was purusing facebook-saw a great post by ss that I wanted to share.
"Looking to hang with some peeps tonight. Having a bonfire in the pasture. There's going to be some stuff. HMU if you want to come".
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Making amends...
So there is something I want my dh to do but have not approached him with just yet. Wondering if others think it is acceptable.
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