So if anyone read my blog yesterday you will know I was out of sorts after finding a message my former sd sent me about 5 months ago following a conversation she had with my current sil. She repeated alot of lies and just filth from my sil about my dh and then went on the say how my whole life was disgusting, compared it to sodom and gomorrah, and that I turned her stomach. She is 34. From my first marriage and I hadnt spoke to her in 13 years. So, wow.

I literally just found it yesterday (who knew there was an "other' box in your inbox on facebook)so I did end up replying to her. After messaging back and forth several times-she actually ended up apologizing to me. Said she did not understand the whole situation with sil-had only heard her side of the story and did make the mistake of assuming it was true. She said her only motivation intially was to help sil as she called her crying after 15 years of no contact and told her a sob story.

My ds (actually myself) blocked her from his account on facebook after she asked for prayers for sil and sympathized with her-then "he" sent her a brief message just saying that the prayers should be for his dad and that she didnt know the whole story and then i blocked her. Since she truly didnt understand what was actually going on she got very defensive and angry and felt that my ds and myself were angry with her for no reason when she was just praying for a lost soul. Especially since she automatically believed the horrible things about my dh.

I dont know. Dont misunderstand we arent going to be best friends or anything, but I do prefer not to make any enemies. I was pleased that she apologized for assuming it was true and sending the message. One of the things that had hurt so much and that I had asked her-Do you really think this is how I'd live my life? I know you dont like me, but you KNOW me-is this how I've ever lived my life,how you think I would raise my children? She also told me that she really didnt think it was so horrible that myself and her cousin were married now, she was just upset because she felt it was too soon after her dad's death- (we married about 18 months after he died). But she knows its not really any of her business and she does not judge me any longer for that.

Could it be true that these little cretins do grow up and be semi normal adults? Surely not?