Last night, after being kind of a jerk, SD16 B/M was wonderful and we had an interesting and fun conversation. Its like a lightbulb, how her personality changes. Is that typical teen mood swing? I wouldnt know, this is my first time going through this.

Many different topics came up, with the main theme being her sister, Feral Forger SD23. Always part and parcel of that theme is how victimized her mother Toxic Troll is. ALWAYS. And now its reached a new height (or low...)

Thank you everyone for your kind words and encouragement.

I have been feeling really fried and super burned out for many different reasons. 

Im turning the corner however and stress levels have gone down. SD16 was with us for two weeks instead of 1 due to SD23 having strep...and it wasnt so bad or it didnt bug me as much. I stayed home mostly. Week before last husband was really sick. He turned an ashen gray and slept a lot, even napped during the day which he never does.

Obviously I come here a lot these more recent days.

OK, is this a problem and if so how to deal with it;

1. SD16 B/M doesnt do visitation outside of her room. She ONLY comes out for bathroom breaks and food. Which is happening later and later. Is this a problem or is this normal?

2. When she does come out, for food, she comes out at 10:30 11 pm. If its leftovers or something husband cooks thats one thing, but lately its been bothering me when I cook. Its pretty much grab what you want, no thank you, and then off again.

Well, I did it. With many misgivings. Registration is all online and I have the credentials set up, and get all the emails. And even set up Husband to get the same emails.

So after guiding Sd 16 B/M through the process via text and emailing all the credentials and set ups for both parents, do you think I got at least a "thank you, I appreciate your help"??????????

Check all that applies:

Yes _______

All Right __________